I like the way the walls go out. Gives you an open feeling. Firefly is a good design. People don't appreciate the substance of things. Objects in space. People miss out on what's solid.

Early ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 17, 2016 8:12:08 am PST #23296 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

ugh, smonster.


smonster - Feb 17, 2016 8:53:31 am PST #23297 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Better today. We're behind on a project so there is more than normal pressure to go fast and micromanaging and stuff. Work is the same but I'm giving myself an attitude adjustment via Tara Brach podcasts. I need to remember those sooner.


Liese S. - Feb 17, 2016 10:30:34 am PST #23298 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Bleargh, smonster, but good on you for finding some coping mechanisms.


Toddson - Feb 17, 2016 11:32:21 am PST #23299 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Someone - a fairly new hire who's the #2 in the office - came to me asking if we had a template/standard for something. After about the fifth repetition, she finally understood that no, we don't. eeesh


Laura - Feb 17, 2016 3:49:07 pm PST #23300 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Work is stupid. You would think that working for myself it would be less so, but not so much. In theory I should be able to take a day off from time to time, but instead it ends up being working excessive hours. Oh well. Maybe seeing a light at the end of the tunnel, but at least a couple more weeks of triple time with the current project.

I do feel bad because I have a friend visiting from RI and I haven't had time to socialize. Fortunately she is self sufficient and comfortable enough to take my car and do stuff on her own.


beekaytee - Feb 17, 2016 4:09:17 pm PST #23301 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Sing it, self-employed sister!

You'd think it would be less complicated. So absolutely not.


NoiseDesign - Feb 17, 2016 6:52:55 pm PST #23302 of 30002
Our wings are not tired

Yeah, one of my employees, who is normally awesome, just pulled the pin on a metaphorical grenade with a client and the whole thing landing in my lap.

Not what I needed. Now instead of this being a clean handoff to someone we use for additional design work because we are some busy at that point, I get to add it to my list of projects that I need to personally handle and make sure go smoothly so that the client feels taken care of. This is the opposite of lessening the load on me.


beekaytee - Feb 18, 2016 5:02:52 am PST #23303 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Oh, ND. That just sucks royally. I'm so sorry, because I can so completely relate to that frustration, though it is so much worse under your current circumstance.

My version of that this morning is dealing with a pet care client who saved money by having us do mid-day walks while he is out of town and having 'friends' take care of his delicate breed dog the rest of the time. They've injured his pet and are throwing my guy under the bus. The client HAS to know that they are lying, given the details, but instead of confronting them, or having us take over the rest of the services, he's forwarded the friends' emails to me to deal with.

I wish I could say this was an uncommon occurrence. It is so much the reverse, that I've included a clause in the client agreement to make sure everyone understands the limits of our liability. I sincerely understand why people split services like this, and I'd be the last person to say we are infallible, but this arrangement very rarely works out well for the pet.


Steph L. - Feb 18, 2016 5:07:01 am PST #23304 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I sincerely understand why people split services like this, and I'd be the last person to say we are infallible, but this arrangement very rarely works out well for the pet.

Our petsitter is worth every penny when we go out of town. The pets know her, so they're not stressed by an unfamiliar person. They like her, so they're happy when she comes over. If we split it up, the pets would be pretty stressed out, and that's not worth it to us.


SuziQ - Feb 18, 2016 5:12:13 am PST #23305 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

That reminds me, I need to find a pet sitter for the second weekend in March. Hmmmm, now that we have moved, I'm not sure who to ask.

Back to the TJ's conversation. K-Bug's first job was there and it was a great fit for her. When CJ went to fill out the application yesterday, they were actually holding interviews, so he got interviewed also. This location doesn't open for another 3 months - but they are looking to hire soon, send them to other stores to get trained up so they are ready to go when the store opens.

Kalshane - congrats!!!

I know there was more but my brain is not firing this morning.