Stop means no. And no means no. So . . . stop.

Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Feb 02, 2016 4:57:10 pm PST #23188 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I remember being so glad for you as your relationship with Biyi developed, after all the unhappiness you had had before, bt.


meara - Feb 02, 2016 5:18:19 pm PST #23189 of 30002

Awww. So neat to read, and to remember!!

Tomorrow is my parents' 48th wedding anniversary. Bizarre.


Burrell - Feb 02, 2016 6:09:34 pm PST #23190 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Congratulations, bt!


Pix - Feb 02, 2016 7:15:58 pm PST #23191 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.

I can't believe it took you ten years to tell us how lunch went.

HA! This made me LOL for reals.


Fred Pete - Feb 03, 2016 4:55:28 am PST #23192 of 30002
Ann, that's a ferret.

"We met at nine."
"We met at eight."
"I was on time."
"No, you were late."
"Ah yes, I remember it well."

Happy Anniversary!

Also, Happy Anniversary to meara's parents!


Toddson - Feb 03, 2016 8:33:27 am PST #23193 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

erika, Oreo makes a cookie that's chocolate coated with mint filling. I can only decribe it as being the love child of a Thin Mint and a Peppermint Patty. Take your cookie consumption to the next level!


sj - Feb 03, 2016 8:45:30 am PST #23194 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

BT, 10 years? That's wonderful. I'm so happy for you.

It turns out I don't have a uti. So no idea why I'm feeling so lousy.


Connie Neil - Feb 05, 2016 5:52:54 pm PST #23195 of 30002
brillig

Over on Ravelry, there's a group for New Widows. They were a tremendous help and comfort to me for the first few months. I unjoined the group just now. I can still look them up and post if I want to, but it doesn't serve the same purpose to have them on my primary dashboard. I'm very grateful to them, but life evolves.


beekaytee - Feb 05, 2016 6:41:28 pm PST #23196 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

It seems odd to say 'congratulations' Connie, but I am glad for your evolution.


Connie Neil - Feb 05, 2016 7:08:14 pm PST #23197 of 30002
brillig

I feel a little sad. There are several women on that board who have been widows for much longer than I, and they're still bound up in their loss, still finding it so very difficult to recreate their lives. I'm still smacked sideways with grief, I don't suppose I'll ever be past that, but I'm not consumed with daily sadness. I wish I could share with some of my sad sisterhood how to do it.