Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


EpicTangent - Jan 20, 2016 8:35:30 am PST #23070 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Where I had an image of using it in a more gentle, slidey motion as a percussion instrument.


Sue - Jan 20, 2016 12:22:42 pm PST #23071 of 30002
hip deep in pie

I was raised by cats. I still observe the Old Ways.

If we ever meet, I am bringing a laser pointer!


Scrappy - Jan 20, 2016 12:57:16 pm PST #23072 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I had the BEST time with Tom in NYC. I hope I didn't make you too anxious--I loved hanging out with you.


sj - Jan 21, 2016 7:22:54 am PST #23073 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I posted a cute picture of ltc earlier today with the caption "Mommy thinks I'm going to let her read the paper". And I got a response from an inlaw that surely the baby is more fun and exciting than current events. Seriously? Why does everyone want to seem to want to make moms feel guilty if they don't want to spend 24/7 playing with their babies. I love ltc more than anything but sometimes I just need a break. Or am I being too sensitive?


Sparky1 - Jan 21, 2016 7:32:11 am PST #23074 of 30002
Librarian Warlord

When K was born my sister took me aside and said, "It's okay to be relieved when the baby goes to sleep." Heck, it's okay to be happy when the 6-year old goes to sleep...


smonster - Jan 21, 2016 8:20:35 am PST #23075 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Your in-law is being a doofus. Ignore.


juliana - Jan 21, 2016 8:45:40 am PST #23076 of 30002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

sj, I will smite your in-law with great vengeance and furious anger. Mamas need breaks. (I just spent 30 minutes walking Peanut up & down the hall, begging her to fall asleep. She's asleep, finally, but on me. Not ideal, but I'll take it.)


sj - Jan 21, 2016 8:52:36 am PST #23077 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, I will smite your in-law with great vengeance and furious anger. Mamas need breaks.

You have my permission.

(I just spent 30 minutes walking Peanut up & down the hall, begging her to fall asleep. She's asleep, finally, but on me. Not ideal, but I'll take it.)

Ugh. I'm sorry. I feel inadequate sometimes because I can't walk her around. So, I have to find other ways to comfort her. She's a great sleeper at night, but not a great napper. I'm trying to transition her from the bassinet to the crib, and she took two short naps in the crib today. Not long enough, and she's still cranky but it's something.


juliana - Jan 21, 2016 8:59:43 am PST #23078 of 30002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I'm trying to transition her from the bassinet to the crib, and she took two short naps in the crib today.

See, I need to do that, since Peanut's already outgrowing her bassinet, but I don't have the emotional fortitude.

I'm sorry if you ever feel inadequate, sj. You're not, and I know ltc knows she's one loved and well-mothered little girl.


Zenkitty - Jan 21, 2016 9:22:20 am PST #23079 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

THE BABY IS ALL. ALL IS BABY. SLEEP IS FOR THE WEAK AND CHILDLESS. SMILE MOMMY SMILE.