Is there a local gun range or gun club that provides on site firearm lockup? This way you can secure the gun offsite, it can be available for shooting at the shooting range, and not be in your house. It also allows you to be back in control of firearms being in your house on your terms, without completely confiscating the weapon.
Buffy: So how'd she get away with the bad mojo stuff? Anya: Giles sold it to her. Giles: Well, I didn't know it was her. I mean, how could I? If it's any consolation, I may have overcharged her.
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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
NoiseDesign - Jul 23, 2013 9:50:26 am PDT #2213 of 30002
Our wings are not tired
beth b - Jul 23, 2013 9:50:50 am PDT #2214 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
There are things you don't give to kids without parental permision. guns, cars, drums, amps, pets,etc
beth b - Jul 23, 2013 9:55:18 am PDT #2215 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
yay - Jonathan came out from under the couch. he got bored hiding from the scary noises
Beverly - Jul 23, 2013 10:11:29 am PDT #2216 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
ND has a very good suggestion. In your place, I'd follow up on that. It is a way of exerting control without a showdown with the bf (Okay, I backspaced over the nomenclature three times before typing those two letters. Admire my restraint).
beth b - Jul 23, 2013 10:11:43 am PDT #2217 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
now I get to go to work ...in a few
exhilerating day
beth b - Jul 23, 2013 10:14:06 am PDT #2218 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
and I too like the idea of a keeping it at a local gun club. you don't have to confont.
Zenkitty - Jul 23, 2013 10:19:58 am PDT #2219 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
This really feels like a specific move to fuck with you and assert more control over your family. It's really disturbing.
Oh, hell yes, this. He won't stop at this, either. I like ND's suggestion.
Ginger - Jul 23, 2013 10:22:55 am PDT #2220 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Generally speaking, if the only guns out there were bolt-action rifles, which are the modern equivalent of the rifles used in early America for hunting and the sort of gun the founders had in mind, we'd all be a lot safer.
The good thing about a gun club and lessons is that Cory gets to use the gun, but under reliable adult supervision.
Typo Boy - Jul 23, 2013 10:41:07 am PDT #2221 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
I'm with the gun club, and also that giving the gun without asking is the act of a douchenozzel.
Maria - Jul 23, 2013 10:49:34 am PDT #2222 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
Everyone, I get that we're upset at the situation with the gun, Suzi, and CJ. Suzi has said she is comfortable with his demeanor and attitude about and around guns. Her issue is with how the gun came to be in the house. Can we focus on the boyfriend's lack of respect instead?