"I know you've got to be pretty busy, but I'l love to take you for a relaxing drink. What time and place works for you? I hear ZYX bistro has a killer happy hour?"
I hope you don't think that I just come over for the spells and everything. I mean, I really like just talking and hanging out with you and stuff.
Willow ,'First Date'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Strix - Jul 06, 2015 5:23:00 pm PDT #20394 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Zenkitty - Jul 06, 2015 5:26:33 pm PDT #20395 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
I can feel my feet and legs swelling from the peripheral edema I get at times.
I get that too, from the BP meds. I haaate it. Also the pinprick hemorrhaging, which is supposedly harmless, but I don't like it.
The way to deal with it is don't walk or stand too much and don't sit down too much.
What's left?! Can't lie down all day. Frustrating.
meara - Jul 06, 2015 5:38:42 pm PDT #20396 of 30002
Strix, that's pretty...forceful? I feel like someone would have to be all "um, yeah, uh, busy. Busy all the time. Yup". (In part this is because last time I saw her she was all "we should hang out" but I think meant it in that not-actually-meaning it way? But I want her to say no if she meant it in a friend way? Sigh). What I really need is a handy group event I can invite her to, but I don't have any (and have no idea when she'd be free even if I came up with one, since she works a weird schedule). But oh, the crushing...
Burrell - Jul 06, 2015 5:40:11 pm PDT #20397 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
I'd go casual, meara. Maybe a hey, I'll be in your neighborhood, want to meet for coffee/drinks? That way if she says no, you won't have laid all your cards on the table.
Burrell - Jul 06, 2015 5:42:38 pm PDT #20398 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
But I want her to say no if she meant it in a friend way?
So you are not interested in friendship?
Ginger - Jul 06, 2015 5:44:22 pm PDT #20399 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
I also have the damn swollen feet and legs. I am sorry to have to report that the knee-high compression stockings do help. The only thing that really helps is getting the feet higher than the heart, which is not a position in which I can get a damn thing done. I have seriously considered purchasing a recliner. Of course, I'd have to get rid of furniture first.
meara - Jul 06, 2015 5:58:43 pm PDT #20400 of 30002
I am fine being acquaintances and friendly, but since I've got a terrible crush on her at the moment, I'd rather not be friends? If that makes sense? Not if her commenting on my FB is going to make me all addlepated and all "what does it meaaaaaan?"
Strix - Jul 06, 2015 6:05:29 pm PDT #20401 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
smonster - Jul 06, 2015 6:30:43 pm PDT #20402 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Went on my first date in seven months. It wasn't horrible but I dont think there will be a second date and that's in line with what I want. I have another first date on Thursday. In conclusion, dating sucks, the end.
meara - Jul 06, 2015 7:25:07 pm PDT #20403 of 30002
Ugh. I hear ya smonster!