I hope you don't think that I just come over for the spells and everything. I mean, I really like just talking and hanging out with you and stuff.

Willow ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Strix - Jun 06, 2015 7:23:16 am PDT #19699 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Dan looks AMAZING in skinny jeans. He has one pair of jeans, and two pair of cords and he totally has the super skinny build for them. I do NOT. And I see girls in skinny jeans that do not work for them ATALL and I just want to hug them and hand them a nice pair of flattering boot-cut jeans.


Steph L. - Jun 06, 2015 7:24:06 am PDT #19700 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I see girls in skinny jeans that do not work for them ATALL and I just want to hug them and hand them a nice pair of flattering boot-cut jeans.

This is why I stick to boot-cut jeans.


Strix - Jun 06, 2015 7:24:28 am PDT #19701 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

sj, I also buy nighties a Target and wear them as dresses. (I mean, not negligees, but cotton or microfiber jobbies.)


sj - Jun 06, 2015 7:26:55 am PDT #19702 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, my mom bought me 3 maternity dresses at Old Navy that are lightweight and SO COMFY. So comfy. (I have to layer them, because summer seems to have fully arrived in SF with all its 60 degree glory.)

We already had several 90 degree days in May, and I was not prepared. And even when it is 60, I'm running hot.

sj, I also buy nighties a Target and wear them as dresses. (I mean, not negligees, but cotton or microfiber jobbies.)

I haven't found much at Target at my current size.


juliana - Jun 06, 2015 7:31:20 am PDT #19703 of 30002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Here are the two that I have that might work for you (the other one is floor length on me in bare feet): [link] [link] Seriously comfy. (Also in black, because I'm not about to start wearing pastels.)


sj - Jun 06, 2015 7:37:14 am PDT #19704 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'd prefer to find something 3/4 length that would fit me closer to full length, because I hate my braces showing.


Scrappy - Jun 06, 2015 2:24:24 pm PDT #19705 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Love those pix of Tim! So glam and joyous!


sj - Jun 06, 2015 3:35:44 pm PDT #19706 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

We went to an Albanian festival in the city for dinner tonight. Delicious gyros and TCG happily has some baklava. It's very amusing that we can go to gatherings like this of various ethnics groups and someone at some point will assume that TCG is part of that ethnic group. Tonight it was a woman who was doing research on those actually born in Albania, and she wanted to know if TCG fell into that category.


smonster - Jun 06, 2015 4:06:48 pm PDT #19707 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Thanks for the hugs and support, all. And Liese, thanks for the link, I will check it out. According to her therapist (via my folks,) she's doing better. I'm not sure I believe it. I'm feeling better today, though. It doesn't help that I'm dealing with my own anxiety and depression. I worked out today and am going to try and make it to yoga tomorrow, get back to regular exercise.


beth b - Jun 06, 2015 8:34:35 pm PDT #19708 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

the book looks useful smonster . Best to you and may you sister find a path.

Tim looks amazing. seriously, he looks very comfortable.

We were up at t he berkely book fest today. It was great fun. But Matt noticed - that even in Berkeley - the way girls dressed vs boys were very much gendered ( is that the word I want) . Down to the the girls wearing slipper like shoes. There was so much walking yet the girls were wearing shoes with no support. (many moms were in boots )