Yesterday, my life's like, 'Uh-oh, pop quiz!' Today it's like, 'rain of toads.'

Xander ,'Beneath You'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - May 30, 2015 12:53:42 pm PDT #19585 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Burrell, I have and do. I'm also ignoring cues that I know are bad for me and using my Alexander technique. I think it's just that I'm weak in certain muscle groups and have loose joints. But how do I get stronger if I don't work out? Yesterday I may have been too ambitious in lifting my shoulders off the floor without supporting my neck; I probably need to do controlled exercises to strengthen the front of my neck (back is v. strong because I spend most of my 10-hr days in flexion). The instructor suggested some, but of course I haven't been doing them.


Calli - May 30, 2015 3:02:17 pm PDT #19586 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I hope you can find an approach to Pilates that works for you, smonster.


Burrell - May 30, 2015 3:12:16 pm PDT #19587 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Burrell, I have and do.

Even as I posted I figured you would, smonster. My stretch teacher used to give us neck strengthening exercises specifically because one member of the class really needed it due to a previous head/neck injury.


Hil R. - May 30, 2015 4:10:39 pm PDT #19588 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

smonster - May 30, 2015 4:43:01 pm PDT #19589 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Even as I posted I figured you would, smonster.

Yeah, it was worth checking with me, though. It's just frustrating. I have to keep remembering what my AT teacher told me one time after I gave her the litany of stuff I had tried to get rid of a migraine or something: Just because you're in pain doesn't mean you're doing something wrong.

Migraine is better but I'm feeling anxious and sad and lonely. I want company but I can't decide who; sympathy feels like pity and sandpaper right now. The idea of reaching out is making me more anxious. I'll probably just keep watching Arrow until I decide it's time for sleep. Times like this I really hate being single, not that there's any guarantee my non-existent SO would be what I needed right now. BLAH, yo. Just, BLAH.


erikaj - May 30, 2015 6:46:22 pm PDT #19590 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

I feel you, although I have totally been lonely with people too.


askye - May 31, 2015 1:26:12 am PDT #19591 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

boring story but I brok the screen on my chrome book, I can still use it and I think it's under the protection plan but I need to get it replaced. It will work for today and tomorrow but something to do when I return back to work.


javachik - May 31, 2015 11:01:02 am PDT #19592 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

In my life by far the most desperately lonely time has been while I've dated someone.


Steph L. - May 31, 2015 1:14:59 pm PDT #19593 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

You guys, Tim got his pinup photos back, and they are FANTASTIC. When he gets home, I'll see if I can put some on Flickr under a private filter (me only) and post a guest pass. You need to see them just for the vintage dress he wears. It's gorgeous.


P.M. Marc - May 31, 2015 7:53:16 pm PDT #19594 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Yay! I'm so glad they're awesomesauce.