A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - May 27, 2015 3:45:46 am PDT #19487 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I just spent two days trying to get through to someone to book my iron infusions. I finally get through and after booking the first one the nurse actually asks me if I want to wait to book the rest. Hell no!


sj - May 27, 2015 4:29:14 am PDT #19488 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Tea:

Buffista parents with opinions about baby products and specifically what I need to be registered for, I would really appreciate your help. I'm finding that there is an overwhelming number of options out there, and I'm sure you know better than I do what I actually need.


Sparky1 - May 27, 2015 4:49:15 am PDT #19489 of 30002
Librarian Warlord

sj, I forwarded you some messages a friend sent me that still apply. Looking back, I can't believe how much stuff I absolutely didn't need, or only used for a short period of time (counted in weeks for infants) and then had to store/ship to someone/get rid of -- which proved to be a pain the arse.


sj - May 27, 2015 5:04:36 am PDT #19490 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, Sparky! That is super helpful.


Strix - May 27, 2015 5:10:52 am PDT #19491 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Lots of onesies, lots of burp clothes, crib, multiple crib sheets, a plastic fitted crib sheet to put under the crib sheet, baby monitor with two handsets, a rocker with an ottoman for the nursery, a nightlight or nightlights for master bath, nursery, hall or bathroom.

LOTS of diapers, a stank-proof diaper can, lots of baby wipes and a baby wipe warmer, a humidifier, car set, good stroller, a Boppee for breast-feeding (or just supporting baby when you hold her/him, a bouncy chair, changing table, Desitin, breast pump (if breastfeeding), clove oil, Ambesol, small ice pack for teething.

Band-Aids, Bactine, Honesty Line of baby items ( cleanser, food, etc.) A CD or MP3 Player for the nursery to play relaxing songs for you and baby.

BOOKS AND A BOOKSHELF!

Bath Toys, Baby bathtub, soft baby sponge, washcloths, robe with animal ears hood/

WINE FOR MOM!

That's all I can come with on half a cup of coffee.


Laura - May 27, 2015 5:11:25 am PDT #19492 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

It has been a couple decades so not real recent memories of this. Mostly I remember that babies really don't have a lot of needs. Love, diapers, and I used a lot of little cloths or wet wipe things. I also had several of the tiny lightweight strollers. Had them in all the vehicles, office, house, must have had a half dozen. My kids were big and heavy and if they weren't in some type of body carrier they were in mini strollers. The big super strollers I found to be annoying.


Strix - May 27, 2015 5:15:09 am PDT #19493 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Where are you registering, sj? 1 place, or a few?


Kate P. - May 27, 2015 5:18:00 am PDT #19494 of 30002
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

sj, you're going to get lots of conflicting advice, so take everything with a big grain of salt, and remember, you don't have to make all the decisions now! There will be plenty of time to buy most things you might feel you need later. That said, of course, I have opinions too, and a long email that I wrote up for a friend last year with my recommendations. I can forward it to you -- is your profile address good?


sj - May 27, 2015 5:29:52 am PDT #19495 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

BOOKS AND A BOOKSHELF!

WINE FOR MOM!

These are already taken care of!

Where are you registering, sj? 1 place, or a few?

Babies R Us and amazon.com

sj, you're going to get lots of conflicting advice, so take everything with a big grain of salt, and remember, you don't have to make all the decisions now! There will be plenty of time to buy most things you might feel you need later. That said, of course, I have opinions too, and a long email that I wrote up for a friend last year with my recommendations. I can forward it to you -- is your profile address good?

Yes, profile address is good. I'd rather have buffista advice than advice from almost anyone else.


brenda m - May 27, 2015 5:35:39 am PDT #19496 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I'd rather have buffista advice than advice from almost anyone else.

Truth.