And don't you ever stand for that sort of thing. Someone ever tries to kill you, you try to kill 'em right back! ... You got the right same as anyone to live and try to kill people.

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - May 07, 2015 2:23:28 pm PDT #19149 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

erika, you know she lived in a suburb, apparently?

juliana, many many woo hoos and congrats! That is so exciting.

Nora, I am glad you are there and I am sending all the ~ma I can muster.


Nora Deirdre - May 07, 2015 2:51:12 pm PDT #19150 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I have stress/comfort eaten ALL THE MASHED POTATOES.

My dad is still in ICU, because he needs constant monitoring, but he will be OK. It'll just take some time. He'll be glad to be done with the tube down his throat, I'm sure. Hopefully that will be tomorrow.

Ratcheting up the stress levels (of course it's not about me though) was the fact that someone in the room next door was going to be taken off on life support that evening. It was totally unexpected (I heard the close relatives tell the story to other relatives and friends) and the whole family was devastated. My heart broke for them all. I was so sad for them, but so grateful that my dad was in a different situation. Oh, man.


erikaj - May 07, 2015 2:55:07 pm PDT #19151 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

I've got to stop even browsing the self-help books, smonster. It makes them confuse me with women who use "journal" as a verb. Also, most of them aren't worth it.


Connie Neil - May 07, 2015 3:14:06 pm PDT #19152 of 30002
brillig

ALL THE MASHED POTATOES

Oh that sounds good.

I'm sorry you find yourself in an ICU. They're not happy places.


Calli - May 07, 2015 3:24:47 pm PDT #19153 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm glad your dad will be ok, Nora.


Laura - May 07, 2015 4:09:05 pm PDT #19154 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

All the mashed potatoes sounds good indeed, as does the better news for your dad. Continuing to send love and ~ma your way, Nora.

{{sj}}, exploding lets the enemy win. No exploding! ~calm~ma.


sj - May 07, 2015 4:12:43 pm PDT #19155 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Not exploding only because I have this place.


Laura - May 07, 2015 4:18:53 pm PDT #19156 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Oh do I know that feeling well!!!

I stopped by to see #1 son today. He is staying in an empty duplex near here. So I worked up the whatever to go around back and open the door and go in. He was in there asleep on some old sofa cushions on the floor in the corner where anyone peaking in windows wouldn't see. No electric of course. We talked, then I told him I had to leave.

I'm okay. My take is that he has to have a certain degree of shame and embarrassment that his mother has seen how he is living. I guess being a homeless bum is still better than dealing with society rules. I let him know he has other options if he wants a better life.


brenda m - May 07, 2015 4:20:03 pm PDT #19157 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

That's what we're here for! Among other things.


beekaytee - May 07, 2015 5:12:46 pm PDT #19158 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

God bless you, Laura. Your strength is awe inspiring.