Anya ,'Storyteller'
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sj, what would you tell one of us?
It is a good enough reason to switch. You are in a high-risk pregnancy, and anything that can ease your concerns and questions will be beneficial to both you and ltc. Go with your gut, or at least have the conversation with Docter #2.
{{{askye}}} I wish there was a magic fix for all of this, but you're on the right path, even if it doesn't seem like it right now.
sj, what would you tell one of us?
You know me too well.
It is a good enough reason to switch. You are in a high-risk pregnancy, and anything that can ease your concerns and questions will be beneficial to both you and ltc. Go with your gut, or at least have the conversation with Docter #2.
That's a good idea. She also told me again today that I'm doing a really good job with the diet, and I don't need to be so hard on myself, which is really what I needed to hear.
I could still end up with Doctor #1 on delivery day
If Doctor #1 acts like a spurned high school girl while delivering a baby, just because "you like that doctor more than you like me, I hate you forever!", then you've got a brilliant malpractice suit.
She also told me again today that I'm doing a really good job with the diet, and I don't need to be so hard on myself, which is really what I needed to hear.
Seems like you have your answer. I haven't heard a single negative thing or complaint come out of your mouth every time you've talked to her. Doc #1 OTOH?
It's not just the mechanics of OB/GYN practice, it's the intangibles--personality compatibility, empathy, bedside manner. Doctor #2 brings the whole package to the table for you.
SWITCH. How many articles have I read in the last 10 years about women being in charge of their birth experience? Switching docs is about the LEAST fussy thing you could do. I mean, JESUS, the things I read!
I just don't like upsetting people, and I could still end up with Doctor #1 on delivery day. I actually think Doctor #1 is an excellent doctor, but I find Doctor #2 to be more personable and approachable. Is that a good enough reason to switch doctors?
I work with hundreds of doctors and see patient switches in multi-doctor practices all the time. They even have a standard form for it in the multi-doctor practices. It is standard and they don't take it personally at all.
With obstetrics they usually make you see all of them since any of them might be on duty when you deliver, but if you are having a scheduled delivery you should be able to have your preferred doctor.
Is that a good enough reason to switch doctors?
Sounds like Doc #2's communication style is a better match with yours. This is a full and sufficient reason to switch. And it casts no aspersions on Doc #1's abilities or virtues.
Thanks, I will talk to her about it as soon as I can.
I was going to marathon iZombie tonight, but TCG's meeting was cancelled.
Thank you Ginger and sj!
I will post an appreciation in Beep Me but, in the meanwhile, I am so, so grateful to the folks who voted and offered good thoughts.
It has been a banner day.
Not only did I win for best life coach in the Washington City Paper 'Best Of' poll but a major, MAJOR opportunity popped up on my horizon.
This opportunity would mean that I could make real, tangible change across the entire globe. That would be hyperbole if it didn't come from the very top of a government agency that I would be honored to help.
I'm a little flaily. At the same time, I'm 100% certain I can give them what they need. Not a packaged 'flavor of the month' tool that will waste their time and money...but the deep listening and options for change that will move them past some serious problems.
With apologies to the Beatles...Baby, I am amazed.
Bonny, that's awesome!