One of my coworkers suggested I picture my audience dressed in kitten costumes. I think I shall pretend the audience is mostly Buffistas instead.
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Hil, I hope the rest does you good and you feel better soon.
Yes, just picture us all there, cheering you on.
Yes! I would be delighted to be in your audience! Picture me smiling and cheering, and the Buffista standing ovation of course.
One of my coworkers suggested I picture my audience dressed in kitten costumes. I think I shall pretend the audience is mostly Buffistas instead.
I like both of these ideas!
I'll support you, Andi! Not even a lurker and it's not even e-mail. Too bad we can't skype in to cheer.
Andi, you will be awesome, as you always are. Good luck.
Picture me smiling, cheering and mouthing the words to Drunken Sailor.
My mother used to work with an autistic savant that would sing "I Will Get What I Want" for hours and hours if someone said "NO" outright. Mom said if it got like that, he usually did, so they had to work out other ways to say it.
Legislative committee meeting only went over time by half an hour. My bit went well. We'll chalk the nerves plus other people's stories equals me nearly in tears while talking up to passion for my topic. Thank you all for your support and encouragement.
Funny you should mention saying no without saying no, erika. I was just discussing that last night with a new staff member who was shadowing me. I emphasized that we have little to no actual authority, and trying to relate to the people we serve using authority that we do not have will make it difficult to build trust with them. The answer to "I want to buy [some really expensive luxury item]" is not "No! You can't do that!" It's "You may have to save up for that for quite a while." Likewise the answer to "I want to be an astronaut" is not, "No way, that'll never happen!" It's "Astronauts have to work hard and study math and science, maybe we can check out the astronomy club at the local college observatory this summer." And fun stuff like that.