This isn't a come-on. I'm in a very serious relationship with a landscape architect.

Oliver ,'Conviction (1)'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Feb 22, 2015 4:47:15 pm PST #17341 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I have photographed everything 4 times over and have recorded every phone call and video taped every conversation.

The fine line I walk is that leaving voids my rights, so I've got to stick until I ensure that I get my deposit back...which is 900 x 16 years compound interest, whatever that may be...and that I have defended all my rights.

Once I get some sleep, I will talk to some lawyers to make sure my next steps are wise ones.

Zen, didn't it feel like summer?! Seriously, those extra degrees were what kept me from totally decompensating today.

Tomorrow, it is back to frigidity. In 2 weeks, though, we could be seeing a break in the frost. Can't wait.

My good bud is coming home from Germany on Thursday, and that will be great too. He is prepped to help me with the moving process, etc.

Speaking of angels, Sparky, you are so comforting to me. I always know you have my back and, even though I'd do anything not to put you out, I feel so much safer in the world knowing you are in it.

I am humbled by how rich with friends and safety nets I am.

Bed time for this bonzo. Sweet dreams y'all.


smonster - Feb 22, 2015 4:51:36 pm PST #17342 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Good night, bonny. I hope you sleep well.

I threw away the cigarettes with half a pack left. Still have this stupid muscle tension headache, I hope it goes away overnight. Had to buy a new computer, mega ouch. It's so bright! It doesn't know me yet! The scroll is wrong!

Speaking of bedtime, same goes for me. Night, all.


beekaytee - Feb 22, 2015 4:59:31 pm PST #17343 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I'm so glad to hear your good news, Laura. May the healing be surprising in its swiftness and inspiring in its completeness.


Ginger - Feb 22, 2015 5:40:35 pm PST #17344 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

It's great to hear that your nephew is getting better, Laura.


Calli - Feb 22, 2015 5:42:23 pm PST #17345 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm glad you're finding some options, bonny, because your current living situation sounds really unpleasant. I hope you get settled elsewhere soon.

Great news, Laura!


meara - Feb 22, 2015 5:43:58 pm PST #17346 of 30002

Bonny, so keep in mind that if he keeps your deposit more than 30 days he owes it all back--per DC law he has 30 days to give you back your deposit with a list of what he's deducting if anything, otherwise he owes it all.


quester - Feb 22, 2015 5:48:12 pm PST #17347 of 30002
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Sleep well, Bonny. I hope all your woes come to a satisfying end.


WindSparrow - Feb 22, 2015 8:23:22 pm PST #17348 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Too tired to go into detail: I'm thinking warm, loving thoughts at all of you. Translate that into hugs if you like them, or into whatever gesture feels warm and loving such as sitting quietly several feet away, respecting personal space.


Hil R. - Feb 22, 2015 10:28:53 pm PST #17349 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I just emailed my students, canceling my classes for tomorrow. I've been coughing all day, and I just won't be up to teaching by tomorrow. Not sure if this cold is developing into bronchitis or just running its course, but I'll see how I'm feeling tomorrow and decide if I need to go to the doctor.


amyth - Feb 23, 2015 3:00:51 am PST #17350 of 30002
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Thanks everyone for the well wishes. Head is much better.

Laura, I'm glad for the good news!

Hil, feel better.