Wow, you've really mastered the power of positive giving-up.

Cordelia ,'End of Days'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Jan 18, 2015 1:36:35 pm PST #15860 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

My neighborhood does an event called Up For Grabs Day every January (it's next weekend, actually), in the gym of a church. It's like a swap meet, I guess, where they have tables set up for every category you can think of, like housewares, toys, books, sports equipment, and clothes by gender/age (adult and kids). There's also a bulletin board set up so people can post pictures of large items like furniture. As long as you bring 3 things, there's no admission fee, and you can take home as much as you can carry. At the end of the event, everything left over goes to Goodwill.

It's smart to have it soon after Christmas, because people have stuff that they might have upgraded (DVD players, stereos), or got new clothes so they cleaned out their closets to make room, etc.

We've gotten rid of a functional-but-too-large stereo system, among other things, and have come home with a perfectly functional LCD monitor and other stuff (I wanted a couple of highball glasses for my occasional glasses of bourbon).


Aims - Jan 18, 2015 1:37:31 pm PST #15861 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Oooh! I really like that idea. I wonder if I can set one up at our church?


Steph L. - Jan 18, 2015 1:40:58 pm PST #15862 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

The logistics don't seem too bad, if you plan for every category of stuff (including a catch-all "miscellaneous" category for things that just don't fit in elsewhere) and get enough volunteers to help (including helping get all the leftover stuff to Goodwill at the end).

It's a great community event. Tons of people come. People who don't have any items to donate pay $5, I think.


beth b - Jan 18, 2015 1:59:36 pm PST #15863 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

that's a cool idea. But I will say - stuff that is taking up your space , is not valuable-at least not to you.


Lilty Cash - Jan 18, 2015 2:01:55 pm PST #15864 of 30002
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

I did vacation planning today. Am I the only snarky, snarky bitch who somehow completely drinks the Disney Kool-Aid? Because I was told to "Have a magical day!" on the phone today, and I just said "Thank you!". What is wrong with me? Is this a snark blind spot?


Topic!Cindy - Jan 18, 2015 2:12:46 pm PST #15865 of 30002
What is even happening?

Well, but Disney World *is* the Magic Kingdom, Lilty. Have faith. A dream is a wish your heart makes.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 18, 2015 2:13:01 pm PST #15866 of 30002
What is even happening?

Or to answer directly, no.


Connie Neil - Jan 18, 2015 2:13:15 pm PST #15867 of 30002
brillig

The Mouse has you, Lilty.


Lilty Cash - Jan 18, 2015 2:19:42 pm PST #15868 of 30002
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

I feel like I'll hug the first cartoon character I see. I do not understand these emotions.


beekaytee - Jan 18, 2015 2:37:43 pm PST #15869 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

My first paid 'job' job was at an amusement part. Marriott's Great America.

We were forced to say, "Have a GREAT MARRiott DAY!!" (inflection intended and vigorously coached) to everyone who paid for a ticket.

I've never been able to hear anyone say something like that without feeling terribly sorry for them.