Gunn: We open a can of Machiavelli on his ass. Harmony: It's Matchabelli, Einstein, and it doesn't come in a can.

'Soul Purpose'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Jan 14, 2015 4:29:02 pm PST #15511 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Congrats, katefate!


beekaytee - Jan 14, 2015 5:20:21 pm PST #15512 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I confess to being kind of a neatnick at the moment

I've been stretching out my year end cleaning ritual to include seriously deep sorting...like my embroidery floss stash. Something about the miniscule is giving me great comfort. And, if I move this year, it will make packing much easier.

While I have not read, nor can I remember the name of, the organizing book du jour...which I believe was written by a Japanese woman...I have been practicing the central principle as shared on facebook.

This past weekend, I took ALL my linens and spread them out, I picked up only the ones I really truly like or find super useful. In the end, I put together 4 kitchen rubbish bags of soft/warm things to take to the shelter along with a huge floor pillow and an under-bed storage bin.

This is what passes for fun in my house.


Steph L. - Jan 14, 2015 5:25:01 pm PST #15513 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

While I have not read, nor can I remember the name of, the organizing book du jour...which I believe was written by a Japanese woman...

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up?


Lilty Cash - Jan 14, 2015 5:27:39 pm PST #15514 of 30002
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

I've got two weeks until we go on vacation and my SIL comes in for cat feeding and I'm already wondering how to make it look presentable. It looks ok for a second once you walk in until you, you know, let your eyes focus. Then you notice the dirt and cat fur tumbleweeds and THE HORROR.


beekaytee - Jan 14, 2015 5:35:43 pm PST #15515 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up?

Is that it?

Google says you are correct, Steph.

I'm fascinated that there is a summary book you can buy for more than half the price of the actual book!

I would not have thought I needed that book, but reading the table of contents suggests there are a few things I could learn. --How to avoid storing seasonal clothes? Given that size of my closet, that would be a miracle.

--Is she saying you should not have a change jar? I love my change jar!! Sorting and rolling coins is a total stress reliever for me.


Zenkitty - Jan 14, 2015 5:38:23 pm PST #15516 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up?

YES. I bought that book and the techniques she teaches made me look at "organizing" in a whole new way. I'm doing it. Instead of feeling overwhelmed, I feel unburdened, like this is finally gonna work.


beekaytee - Jan 14, 2015 5:46:16 pm PST #15517 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I love the chapter heading that suggests de-tagging your clothes as soon as you buy them.

I take that waaaay further by cutting out all the labels/tags for comfort reasons.

Though...I can't put the idea out of my mind that I'm eliminating important forensic information if I ever end up meeting with a criminal mishap.


Steph L. - Jan 14, 2015 5:46:35 pm PST #15518 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I should get it...but then I just fear it will all bounce off Tim and we'll continue hoarding cardboard tubes (no, really).

But then -- we cleaned out 5 years' worth of mail 2 weeks ago, so I have some hope we can keep making progress.


beekaytee - Jan 14, 2015 5:51:36 pm PST #15519 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Huh. The library has 27 copies but 73 holds.

You can't even borrow an electronic version.

I don't even know how that works. If it's digital, how can there be limited copies?


Steph L. - Jan 14, 2015 5:54:14 pm PST #15520 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I don't even know how that works. If it's digital, how can there be limited copies?

It's like a license -- they can only lend the number of "copies" they bought. Otherwise publishers wouldn't make money.