Xander: We just saw the zebras mating! Thank you, very exciting... Willow: It was like the Heimlich, with stripes!

'Him'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Anne W. - Jan 14, 2015 3:54:33 pm PST #15507 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Katefate! That is excellent news!

The interior of my house is in decent shape in terms of cleanliness, but there are so many little repairs I need to do, and so much work on the outside of the house... I've been putting this off for years. No more. This will be the year.


askye - Jan 14, 2015 4:08:07 pm PST #15508 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Congrats katefate!!!

My house is, well it's awlays bad. One of the HDMI ports on my tv is bad and I can get it fixed, but it means having someone come to the house.

Someone I work with. So there is no way it's getting fixed until the house is clean. Or at least the living room and kitchen, I can close the doors on the other parts.


Zenkitty - Jan 14, 2015 4:25:11 pm PST #15509 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I've found the UFYH website list of how to emergency clean your house as fast as possible to be extremely helpful. UFYH overall is a good resource for those of us who can't deal with the Flylady approach.

I've been fretting over my cluttered living space for literally years. This is a waste of precious energy, and it has to stop. I have to stop spinning my mental wheels in an endless shame-anxiety spiral and get it to a state I can live with and maintain. The anxiety itself is the barrier to ending the thing that causes the anxiety.


erikaj - Jan 14, 2015 4:26:53 pm PST #15510 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

My closets and shelves are pretty clean, since I can't stop watching "Hoarders", but I wish I didn't live like...a subordinate clause.


WindSparrow - Jan 14, 2015 4:29:02 pm PST #15511 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Congrats, katefate!


beekaytee - Jan 14, 2015 5:20:21 pm PST #15512 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I confess to being kind of a neatnick at the moment

I've been stretching out my year end cleaning ritual to include seriously deep sorting...like my embroidery floss stash. Something about the miniscule is giving me great comfort. And, if I move this year, it will make packing much easier.

While I have not read, nor can I remember the name of, the organizing book du jour...which I believe was written by a Japanese woman...I have been practicing the central principle as shared on facebook.

This past weekend, I took ALL my linens and spread them out, I picked up only the ones I really truly like or find super useful. In the end, I put together 4 kitchen rubbish bags of soft/warm things to take to the shelter along with a huge floor pillow and an under-bed storage bin.

This is what passes for fun in my house.


Steph L. - Jan 14, 2015 5:25:01 pm PST #15513 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

While I have not read, nor can I remember the name of, the organizing book du jour...which I believe was written by a Japanese woman...

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up?


Lilty Cash - Jan 14, 2015 5:27:39 pm PST #15514 of 30002
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

I've got two weeks until we go on vacation and my SIL comes in for cat feeding and I'm already wondering how to make it look presentable. It looks ok for a second once you walk in until you, you know, let your eyes focus. Then you notice the dirt and cat fur tumbleweeds and THE HORROR.


beekaytee - Jan 14, 2015 5:35:43 pm PST #15515 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up?

Is that it?

Google says you are correct, Steph.

I'm fascinated that there is a summary book you can buy for more than half the price of the actual book!

I would not have thought I needed that book, but reading the table of contents suggests there are a few things I could learn. --How to avoid storing seasonal clothes? Given that size of my closet, that would be a miracle.

--Is she saying you should not have a change jar? I love my change jar!! Sorting and rolling coins is a total stress reliever for me.


Zenkitty - Jan 14, 2015 5:38:23 pm PST #15516 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up?

YES. I bought that book and the techniques she teaches made me look at "organizing" in a whole new way. I'm doing it. Instead of feeling overwhelmed, I feel unburdened, like this is finally gonna work.