Ugh Laura, what a huge PITA. I'm sorry.
And sj that is just ... boggling. Ugh.
Okay, enough ugh for now.
When you look back at this, in the three seconds it'll take you to turn to dust, I think you'll find the mistake was touching my stuff.
Buffy ,'Lessons'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Burrell - Oct 05, 2014 2:48:45 pm PDT #13587 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Beverly - Oct 05, 2014 2:51:31 pm PDT #13588 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
sj, ugh. You need better relatives. There are Buffistas who would apply...
Sympathies on your loss, Pix.
Vortex, thank you for that!
ETA, somehow I skipped Laura's post. That's both rude and tacky, Laura. Not to mention exasperating and inconvenient.
Hil R. - Oct 05, 2014 4:39:24 pm PDT #13589 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Um, OK Cupid help? Sent like three messages back and forth with a guy, talked about Doctor Who a little, and he wants to know if it's inappropriate to ask if I like cuddling.
Connie Neil - Oct 05, 2014 4:44:01 pm PDT #13590 of 30002
brillig
Do you think it's inappropriate for him to ask?
edit: it seems a straightforward inquiry as to boundaries.
meara - Oct 05, 2014 4:46:25 pm PDT #13591 of 30002
Do you think it is?
I think it's a little weird to phrase it that way (because if it IS inappropriate, it's a little hard to have not already asked, y'know?) but on the other hand, asking about cuddling is not exactly asking "So, is it inappropriate to ask if you like [hardcore sex thing/fetish/dick pics)?"
Hil R. - Oct 05, 2014 4:46:28 pm PDT #13592 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I don't know. I responded, anyway.
Hil R. - Oct 05, 2014 4:47:18 pm PDT #13593 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I think it's a little weird to phrase it that way (because if it IS inappropriate, it's a little hard to have not already asked, y'know?) but on the other hand, asking about cuddling is not exactly asking "So, is it inappropriate to ask if you like [hardcore sex thing/fetish/dick pics)?"
Yeah. Like, it's earlier than I would have expected a question like that, but it's not like it's totally over the line.
Hil R. - Oct 05, 2014 4:55:03 pm PDT #13594 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
...and, the conversation just got creepy, and I'm out.
Steph L. - Oct 05, 2014 6:08:13 pm PDT #13595 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I'm style-impaired and can barely dress myself, so I genuinely don't know the answer to this question: if I wear hose with this dress and black shoes (I am bare-legged in this picture, because it was August), should I wear black hose? It seems like it would look bad against the white at the bottom of the skirt (though that wide band is white with black stripes). And white hose doesn't seem right, either. And I thought everyone hated nude hose. I am at a total loss.
Hil R. - Oct 05, 2014 6:09:22 pm PDT #13596 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I'd probably go with black hose with that dress.