sj, ugh. You need better relatives. There are Buffistas who would apply...

Sympathies on your loss, Pix.

Vortex, thank you for that!

ETA, somehow I skipped Laura's post. That's both rude and tacky, Laura. Not to mention exasperating and inconvenient.

Um, OK Cupid help? Sent like three messages back and forth with a guy, talked about Doctor Who a little, and he wants to know if it's inappropriate to ask if I like cuddling.

Do you think it's inappropriate for him to ask?

edit: it seems a straightforward inquiry as to boundaries.

Do you think it is?

I think it's a little weird to phrase it that way (because if it IS inappropriate, it's a little hard to have not already asked, y'know?) but on the other hand, asking about cuddling is not exactly asking "So, is it inappropriate to ask if you like [hardcore sex thing/fetish/dick pics)?"

I don't know. I responded, anyway.

I think it's a little weird to phrase it that way (because if it IS inappropriate, it's a little hard to have not already asked, y'know?) but on the other hand, asking about cuddling is not exactly asking "So, is it inappropriate to ask if you like [hardcore sex thing/fetish/dick pics)?"

Yeah. Like, it's earlier than I would have expected a question like that, but it's not like it's totally over the line.

...and, the conversation just got creepy, and I'm out.

I'm style-impaired and can barely dress myself, so I genuinely don't know the answer to this question: if I wear hose with this dress and black shoes (I am bare-legged in this picture, because it was August), should I wear black hose? It seems like it would look bad against the white at the bottom of the skirt (though that wide band is white with black stripes). And white hose doesn't seem right, either. And I thought everyone hated nude hose. I am at a total loss.

I'd probably go with black hose with that dress.

Definitely black hose.