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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Zenkitty - Sep 29, 2014 3:31:58 pm PDT #13483 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

sj, peace and love to you and yours. It's so hard.


erikaj - Sep 29, 2014 3:42:58 pm PDT #13484 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

What a jackhole, bonny.


beekaytee - Sep 29, 2014 3:59:15 pm PDT #13485 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

erika, I might just point that out to him should he call again.

I might add that we are already walking his dog for less than half of what we charge normally.

Jackhole indeed.

I can't say that I've never taken advantage of a situation in my life. But This? (He has never even mentioned the poor dog.)


Hil R. - Sep 29, 2014 4:20:35 pm PDT #13486 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I just joined OK Cupid again. I'll see how this goes.


erikaj - Sep 29, 2014 5:21:35 pm PDT #13487 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

"Well, we *were* cool, but now you have forced me to add an insensitivity tax of forty percent." (for jackhole dog guy) Hil, good luck. I'm not sure what I was looking for from an online date, just that I didn't find it. Met some nice people, though.


WindSparrow - Sep 29, 2014 5:40:05 pm PDT #13488 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Ok bonny, I have to say that for some reason I was kinda expecting some other shoe to drop with this very sad situation - I was expecting someone, somehow, to be a jackhole. And now that it has happened, I can just say how glad I am that the jackholery is adjacent to the people actually involved. It sucks for anyone to have to be touched by it, but it isn't inside any of the protagonists, so to speak.


beekaytee - Sep 29, 2014 10:57:10 pm PDT #13489 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Andi, the company owner said what you said.

I actually expected a negative grief response, which might still come, but that I could totally understand.

This. Seriously, I can't remember the last time I was so sideswiped by someone else's behavior. In that puppy-tilts-its-head, bzuh? sort of way.

I've regained my wits and will pretty much do what erika said, if he comes back to me.

I pretty much live by Bruce Springsteen's eulogy for Harry Chapin which, in paraphrase, goes, "He did what he could for the other guy and always had a clear eye on the wicked ways of the world."

This one snuck up on me. I may need to have my eyes checked.


erikaj - Sep 30, 2014 7:42:21 am PDT #13490 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

It's mot a bad thing that you don't expect people to be that opportunistic and horrible.


Toddson - Sep 30, 2014 7:46:46 am PDT #13491 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

You know, it often seems that, no matter how low you set the bar, someone will find a way to get under it. Kind of a moral limbo.


EpicTangent - Sep 30, 2014 7:48:02 am PDT #13492 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

You know, it often seems that, no matter how low you set the bar, someone will find a way to get under it. Kind of a moral limbo.

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