Tracy: Well-- That call -- That call means you just murdered me. Mal: No, son. You murdered yourself. I just carried the bullet a while.

'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Strix - Aug 14, 2014 7:35:40 am PDT #12837 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Luck to you, Calli!


sj - Aug 14, 2014 7:44:59 am PDT #12838 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I am home from vacation and filled with gronk.

Today was a better day. Maybe last night was cathartic, IDK.

I'm glad to hear it, and I hope today is going well too.

Best of luck, Calli.


Fred Pete - Aug 14, 2014 8:44:46 am PDT #12839 of 30002
Ann, that's a ferret.

Good luck, Calli. Madison is a fine place to live. You'll just have to get used to winter again.


WindSparrow - Aug 14, 2014 8:54:05 am PDT #12840 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Good luck, Calli.


Calli - Aug 14, 2014 9:24:11 am PDT #12841 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Thanks, y'all. I'm actually trying to get back to winter, so that totally works for me.

Smonster, I hope things continue to improve for you.


EpicTangent - Aug 14, 2014 10:38:20 am PDT #12842 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Welcome home, sj.

Lots of -ma, Calli.

Glad you're feeling a bit better smonster. Hope the improving trend continues.

ION, Avon, for no easily discernible reason, has discontinued the best powder foundation in the world. My quest for a good powder foundation is on again. I used to use one from Cover Girl that's quite good, but I've been trying not to use them since I discovered they're on PETA's naughty list. I have a hard time finding one that's really powder (cream-to-powder is a lie) yet gives sufficient coverage that I can use it alone as a foundation. Anyone here have any recs?


SailAweigh - Aug 14, 2014 11:53:20 am PDT #12843 of 30002
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Congratulations, Aims!

Another job in my field came up at the University of Wisconsin-Madison this morning

Hey, Calli, was it a position for an instructional designer/technologist with Continuing Studies? We've been posting new positions right and left. Leanne just posted this one yesterday.


Cass - Aug 14, 2014 8:26:36 pm PDT #12844 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Aromaleigh (they're doing their powder foundation again, yay.) for mineral makeup. And you can order a million samples to find the perfect one.

Congrats, Aims!

I suspect the fact that a lot of y'all are introverts probably doesn't help the whole "would I want visitors in the hospital" bit.

This is true. I don't like most people in my home. Much less a hospital room.


Laura - Aug 15, 2014 2:06:52 am PDT #12845 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I suspect the fact that a lot of y'all are introverts probably doesn't help the whole "would I want visitors in the hospital" bit.

True, but there are likely a lot more introverts when it comes to socializing when feeling and looking like crap.


Steph L. - Aug 15, 2014 8:12:24 am PDT #12846 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Update on the judgey you-all-suck-because-you-aren't-visiting-someone-in-the-hospital-and-I-think-you-should friend:

I did reply to her post and said, fairly succinctly, that I was sorry to hear she thought I was a bad friend for not visiting, but my understanding was that ICU visiting was restricted AND because the patient has been gravely ill, I was giving them their privacy at a time it seemed they needed it, especially because I don't know them well enough to feel like I should insert myself into a very stressful time, and that it was never because I don't care about the patient.

Several mutual friends followed with "Yeah, what Steph said. We don't know [Patient] and [Husband] very well, but we're praying for them," etc.

Judgey friend didn't reply to any of those.

Unfortunately, the woman who is in the hospital is doing worse -- she improves a little and then has a fairly bad setback. Tim is going to call the husband, because they've known each other for longer than I have.

Still annoyed at judgey friend, but, again, fuck her.