No, it's shiny! I like to meet new people. They've all got stories...

Kaylee ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Connie Neil - Aug 12, 2014 6:49:32 pm PDT #12806 of 30002
brillig

But no latex balloons.


erin_obscure - Aug 12, 2014 7:03:05 pm PDT #12807 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

And no plastic combs if they are in a hyperbaric chamber


beth b - Aug 12, 2014 7:59:45 pm PDT #12808 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

DH , mom. My sisters would be ok. I'd be happy to see my cats. But actually - alone time is ok. really

I have a few friends I wouldn't mind seeing, but maybe not at my worst.

I've visited a few people in the hospital, but not a lot. I'd rather send them funny animal pictures


meara - Aug 12, 2014 8:32:06 pm PDT #12809 of 30002

I suspect the fact that a lot of y'all are introverts probably doesn't help the whole "would I want visitors in the hospital" bit.


omnis_audis - Aug 12, 2014 9:56:49 pm PDT #12810 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

I suspect the fact that a lot of y'all are introverts probably doesn't help the whole "would I want visitors in the hospital" bit.

Ha!


Typo Boy - Aug 12, 2014 10:17:57 pm PDT #12811 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

I suspect the fact that a lot of y'all are introverts probably doesn't help the whole "would I want visitors in the hospital" bit.

True. But I still think the general rule is (unless you are family or best friend or lover close): ask them or whoever is running interference for them if they want visitors. If they are not well enough for you to phone their room, and you don't know them well enough to know who is running interference for them, you probably don't know them well enough to visit.


NoiseDesign - Aug 12, 2014 10:23:25 pm PDT #12812 of 30002
Our wings are not tired

I was happy to get visitors when I was stuck in the hospital for a month. I'm sure that Kristin ran interference on this initially as I was pretty out of it for the first week or so.


omnis_audis - Aug 12, 2014 11:29:51 pm PDT #12813 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Yes she did, and kept us in the loop on your progress.


smonster - Aug 13, 2014 3:16:57 am PDT #12814 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Steph, could you "unfollow" or "unfriend" her? I just dumped 50 people from my friendslist and it feels soooo good.

I took a mental health day today, and claimed it as such. I took 1/2 a Xanax last night to go to sleep and woke up not having any fucks to give. E doesn't get it and will never get it and I have to let go of hoping she'll understand and trying to make her understand.

never mind, going in to work


brenda m - Aug 13, 2014 3:17:00 am PDT #12815 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

It really drives home though that if you are family or BFF for someone in the hospital, let people know if they want visitors.