Dawn: I think a date should be in a real fancy restaurant, then champagne at a night club with a floor show, then ballroom dancing. Joyce: Unfortunately, we're not dating in a movie from the thirties.

'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Aug 01, 2014 8:46:26 am PDT #12555 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

That said, ice cream and wine does sound like a reasonable plan to me right now.

I want this. Or just skip the ice cream.

I am, actually, extremely stressed/distressed and can't chill out. Part of it is last night's spectacular insomnia (I fell asleep about half an hour before Tim's alarm went off this morning) -- sleep deprivation is not helpful to one's mental state.

I'd take an Ativan (that is how extremely distressed I am right now -- it's not code Blackwatch Plaid, but it's high enough to warrant drugs [which is pretty fucking high]), but since I'm all sleep-deprived I know it'll make me fall asleep. Which would be fine except I have one last article to finish and return today, and then a phone call to make to try and schedule a speaker.

I think the deal I've made with myself is this: I can cry and wail while I edit (because I am really good at multitasking), and once I've finished editing (should be maybe an hour, tops), I can take Ativan, and then make that phone call right away before the sleepy kicks in. And then go back to bed and everything else can go fuck itself.

That's all I've got for today.


Strix - Aug 01, 2014 8:51:39 am PDT #12556 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I'm trying to embrace the grand motto of IDGAF today, Tep. We'll see how that goes.


Steph L. - Aug 01, 2014 8:56:12 am PDT #12557 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm trying to embrace the grand motto of IDGAF today, Tep. We'll see how that goes.

Solidarity, yo.

I have no fucks left to give today, except wanting to keep my job, so I'm going to meet my deadline, even if it is more half-assed than my usual quality of work. And then ALL THE DRUGS. Well, no, just one.

And maybe GotG later tonight.


Strix - Aug 01, 2014 9:26:51 am PDT #12558 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

We're waiting on GotG until the Kiddo gets here. GeekFamilyFun is worth the wait.

Solidarity, yo.


smonster - Aug 01, 2014 10:14:38 am PDT #12559 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Sometimes IDGAF is the only sane approach. Hope you're napping soon, Steph.

In case time has clouded anyone's memories, I can reconfirm that Scola hugs make everything better.


Steph L. - Aug 01, 2014 10:24:20 am PDT #12560 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Hey, how do you have a Scola?

Hope you're napping soon, Steph.

Soon. I finished my editing and just need to submit the changes (this is the job where I have to mark the changes by hand on a printed copy, scan the article, save it as a PDF, and email it back), and then I think I can nap. Fingers crossed.


Burrell - Aug 01, 2014 11:34:50 am PDT #12561 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

That process still seems crazy burdensome, Steph. But I guess you get it down after a while.


sj - Aug 01, 2014 12:00:17 pm PDT #12562 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

We got the results back on the tests my doctor ran after the d&c. The embryo had an extra chromosome, and there is no way I could have carried to term. Let me know if this is tmi and I should delete.


beekaytee - Aug 01, 2014 12:03:03 pm PDT #12563 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

omg...lower case, since nothing is actually wrong. I am SO headed for a nap at an ill-advised time of day, but I am so deeply in IDevenGAF right now, I can't be bovvered.

I'm certain I'll feel better when I wake and can, perhaps get something done.

I love that my house is so welcoming and I DO welcome people...BUT, earlier today a good friend just walked in the door, unexpectedly...while I had another visitor...toting her lunch along because she needed to be out of her house for a bit.

Glad to be a sanctuary from chaos...even gladder that I'd picked the place up this morning and was not in any kind of compromising position.

Then again, it's been so long since I've been in a position to compromise...

lord. I need to sleep. I hope your nap helped, Steph!


beekaytee - Aug 01, 2014 12:06:00 pm PDT #12564 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Not too much info for me, sj. I hope this finding comforts you in any way you need it to.

Many years ago, on the tv show Life Goes On(of all places) was when I first heard the notion that not every soul is meant to stay.

Despite my rampant agnosticism...my motto is "Believe nothing but entertain all possibilities"...I do find that concept comforting.