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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Jul 28, 2014 7:49:52 am PDT #12471 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

So instead of getting an inheritance my nephew (well his lawyer) gets a bill because the estate owes either xSIL's mother or sister money for something.

Yeah, no. I was an executor for my dad's estate. If I recall correctly (and it may vary from state to state), executors can claim a percentage (maybe 6%? I forget) of any income (interest, rents, etc.) from the estate, and a percentage of the principle. If there's no money in the estate then they are out of luck. But their check writing hand won't get too much of a workout, so it kinda evens out. Since Dad's estate was evenly divided between my sister and me, I didn't claim anything. It would have been one more thing to track, and Dad's estate wasn't exactly huge (he and Mom were teachers). This way, the math was easier. Subtract all final bills, divide whatever's left by two, send copies to the lawyer, done.

ETA: I am not a lawer.


askye - Jul 28, 2014 7:58:48 am PDT #12472 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

My brother's lawyer is on top of this. She was the one who saw that all their accounting and itemization was off and sent everything back to be redone.

The "money owed" thing is just weird. I don't know how much money my xSIL had when she passed but from what I understand about HALF of that amount was spent on late fees and penalties to the IRS. Also the fees for the storage units were paid out of the estate and also her sister was paid about $6000 for doing something that was with the photography business, I think finishing up the photos/wedding albums for the clients who hadn't received them.

E also lost out on some of the social security benefits right after his mother's death because his crappy grandmother didn't fill paperwork in a timely manner.

Originally my brother was going to fight to be the executor of the estate but dropped that because he was so overwhelmed and he trusted his former MIL to do the right thing.

Obviously this trust was misplaced.


Fred Pete - Jul 28, 2014 9:23:05 am PDT #12473 of 30002
Ann, that's a ferret.

((((askye and family)))) I'm no expert on estates law. But yeah, something sounds funny here. (And as a former litigator, I wonder whether the executor might be liable for the fees and penalties.)


sj - Jul 28, 2014 12:09:46 pm PDT #12474 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'd like to go on record that I do not like global weirdening.


omnis_audis - Jul 28, 2014 1:35:19 pm PDT #12475 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

A little nerdy, but hey, with this bunch. Was watching H2 network, a show on word origins. They were talking about how many of our words "come from the Vikings". The one I found most intersting was Bluetooth (as in how your phone talks to your car, or speakers, etc).

From wikipedia:

The word "Bluetooth" is an anglicized version of the Scandinavian Blåtand/Blåtann, (Old Norse blátǫnn) the epithet of the tenth-century king Harald Bluetooth who united dissonant Danish tribes into a single kingdom, according to a legend, introducing Christianity as well. The idea of this name was proposed in 1997 by Jim Kardach who developed a system that would allow mobile phones to communicate with computers. At the time of this proposal he was reading Frans G. Bengtsson's historical novel The Long Ships about Vikings and king Harald Bluetooth.[7][8] The implication is that Bluetooth does the same with communications protocols, uniting them into one universal standard.

The logo description:

The Bluetooth logo is a bind rune merging the Younger Futhark runes (Hagall) (ᚼ) and (Bjarkan) (ᛒ), Harald's initials.

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Zenkitty - Jul 28, 2014 3:00:05 pm PDT #12476 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I always thought the Bluetooth logo looked like a rune. Cool.


Laura - Jul 28, 2014 3:16:44 pm PDT #12477 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

That is interesting. Huh, never thought twice about the history of the name or the logo.


omnis_audis - Jul 28, 2014 4:32:28 pm PDT #12478 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

I thought the B and X were a nod to the abbreviations for transmit (Tx) and receive (Rx), so it was Blue-transceive, or a BX kinda thing. Nope. Some old Viking leader's initials. Neat!


Nora Deirdre - Jul 28, 2014 5:02:53 pm PDT #12479 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I thought the B and X were a nod to the abbreviations for transmit (Tx) and receive (Rx), so it was Blue-transceive, or a BX kinda thing. Nope. Some old Viking leader's initials. Neat!

Man, I just read about this in a novel (The Ancient Family chronicles) (terribly copy-edited, BTW.)


sj - Jul 29, 2014 7:58:23 am PDT #12480 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Any ~ma for my step family today would be really appreciated. My stepfather's great-aunt, J, fell into a coma today. She's been in a nursing home for a while with various health issues so this wasn't unexpected, but it is still hard for the family.