Oooh, a boyfriend! Sounds like fun, smonster...
I am with omnis, I go on first dates. Occasional second dates. NSM third dates. Though actually I hadn't been on any dates in quite a while, and will have had three in the last three weeks. But one is the previously mentioned Player (who in THEORY I'll be having a second date with, but...), one was an acquaintance who I ended up telling at the end of the date that we just weren't in the same place (in life/dating/whatever--she's fun, but I can't see dating her--though for once, it's because she's OLDER (50) rather than younger!), and one from Tinder that'll be this weekend. Which I have no expectations for because Tinder gives you almost no info (and a couple of her pictures are cute and a couple NSM, so who knows what she looks like in person).
...mostly I'm procrastinating work, at the moment.
I'm moderately peeved by this: summer company party comes with a t-shirt or something for employee and guest, even if not attending. I put in my order in June. However, someone obviously correlated HR changes with the t-shirt order, because I only got mine. I was kind of looking forward to having another set of two. Or they could have asked if I still wanted two.
I have a boyfriend
Cool! They say the first step is admitting you have a boyfriend....
and a couple of her pictures are cute and a couple NSM, so who knows what she looks like in person
Still pictures are funny that way. A number of people look much better with motion added. And some are very photogenic.
As one who is happily coupled up I want all my beloveds to be happily coupled up if that is what they desire.
Or they could have asked if I still wanted two.
Well yeah. If for no other reason than you may decide to attend with a guest.
I haven't ever really dated. I either end up *really* in a relationship or, as is more likely lately without a trace.
A number of people look much better with motion added.
Oh, this is me. My pictures always look horrible, but I look okay in person. I think I do, anyway! (On FB someone I've known for 35 years told me I'm "hotter than 2 T-rexes in a sock" which is the best absurd compliment ever.)
Today, if I didn't have a job, I'd just go back to bed. I'm bloated, stiff, achy, and aggravated, and I want to eat non-stop. The scale says I've gained 6 pounds in the last 3 days, which isn't really possible, so it must be retained water. I long for menopause.
I don't know about this Buspar. I've not gotten anywhere near the dose the doctor wanted me to ramp up to, and this is the most I even want to try. Intense dreams, sleeping HARD but not really well; I have more energy but it's all going to agitation, not to, like, doing anything. And I'm noticing myself forgetting things I shouldn't forget - never mind brain lapses on Jeopardy! questions, I'm forgetting how to spell. The muscle twitches are being kept in check with magnesium supplements so far, but I don't like this. I see the doctor again Thursday, and I think I'm going to tell him I want to quit it.
I was on generic Zoloft or Xanax or something once, and I kept walking around with my fists clenched all the time. I didn't think that was right.
Exactly, Connie. Something that's supposed to reduce anxiety shouldn't be making me agitated.
Yay, smonster! (Hi M, if relevant). I hope your beach trip is good.