I'm so sorry, everyone who knew and loved Kara.
I don't know about you guys, but I've had it with super-strong little women who aren't me.
Buffy ,'Get It Done'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Typo Boy - Jul 16, 2014 8:30:03 pm PDT #12271 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Connie Neil - Jul 17, 2014 5:58:25 am PDT #12272 of 30002
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Calli - Jul 17, 2014 6:01:36 am PDT #12273 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Wow! Knightly garb was a good look for him!
Also, whoever does the spell check for iPads is a Doctor Who fan. It revised my typo of "ood" to "Ood".
omnis_audis - Jul 17, 2014 6:10:48 am PDT #12274 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
It learns what you type. Including typos.
smonster - Jul 17, 2014 8:30:00 am PDT #12275 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Wow. Viking indeed. Thanks for sharing that photo, Connie.
Nora, after Tales will you have some time to let yourself fall apart a little? I do feel better today, having been able to sleep yesterday and go to the vigil.
I have decided not to try and come back for the funeral. I hate it, but her family knows I am there for the long haul. And I need to spend time with my family. So, decision made. Thanks for offers of driving, amyth and Zenkitty.
Burrell - Jul 17, 2014 9:47:09 am PDT #12276 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
That's a wonderful photo, Connie.
I know it was a hard choice, smonster, but it sounds like the right one. Take care of yourself.
And you too, Nora. It's okay to not cope for a while, so be forgiving.
sj - Jul 17, 2014 10:42:12 am PDT #12277 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I love the photo, Connie!
smonster, it sounds like you made the right decision for you. It was so much more important that you were there for her when she was alive.
I got my hair done today. Not sure I like the color, but getting out was good. I feel better than yesterday. Now I'm trying to decide if I have enough spoons to tackle Trader Joes.
amyth - Jul 17, 2014 11:08:24 am PDT #12278 of 30002
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
That's a great photo, Connie!
Nora Deirdre - Jul 17, 2014 2:59:02 pm PDT #12279 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
I have decided not to try and come back for the funeral. I hate it, but her family knows I am there for the long haul. And I need to spend time with my family. So, decision made.
I think that's a good decision. You were there for the impromptu wake at Pete's the night it happened and the vigil - two very important opportunities to celebrate and grieve with everyone.
Tom started crying when he talked about the vigil. I'm really proud of him for going without me. He loves Kara so much.
I'm really glad there's a week between Tales and the funeral. I am hoping I can get my shit together enough to see if I can assist in the planning in any way next week.
sj - Jul 17, 2014 3:17:42 pm PDT #12280 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I took TCG to the urgent care tonight because the pain was really bothering him. He is essentially really stressed and has tension in his neck that is causing pain. So muscle relaxants, pain medication, and heat unit he can see his doctor. And she strongly recommended a massage therapist at least once a month.