Giles ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
You can be tough, but Connie, you also don't have to be. You experience this exactly the way you do and it will be ok. You don't have to be anyone's idea of ok or better or grieving enough or too much or anything. Do you, don't worry about anyone else.
Well, ok, the cat, you can totally worry about the cat, that's us too.
Ah, the Halloween ep of Castle and him in the browncoat. It still makes me happy.
And I'm eating and drinking water, so long as it stays put.
Things will go back and forth , but I am happy to hear you can breath a bit
I'm better. The waves are still very rough, but there is a shoreline appearing every now and then, and the rocks aren't quite as sharp.Let the ocean current carry you. When you are ready, you will find a safe harbor, and high tide will push you towards shore. In the meantime, let the waves wash over your bow. They are helping wash away some of the bigger pains. Nature will know when it's cleared as much as it can, then ease you towards shore. And we are all here for ya. And yes, Castle is a great distraction. Love that show.
Shir, great to see your pixels. I've been watching the news, and thinking of you, and trying not to be a 'mother hen' and worrying about you. I keep remembering what you said about neither side wants to damage Jerusalem, so that keeps you safe from bombings. But this round seems a bit more personal than bombings. So, you are in my thoughts.
In meme news, the grand festivities have begun. Wedding weekend is upon us. Last night was party #1 at my place. A chance for the 2 families to meet and mingle. And then watch tons of fireworks. It was a success. Tonight is bachelor party night. Tomorrow is rehearsal dinner (with like 50 people attending!?!?). Then Monday is the big day. Then Tuesday brunch. Then the rest of the week for this introvert to hide from the world and recharge.
Who's getting married, omnis? I must've skimmed.
I'm officiating the marriage of two of my best friends. I introduced them. We all used to work together at old job before I moved to Texas.
How sweet, omnis. Have a lovely weekend!
Has anyone else read "Cheaper By the Dozen," when the father dies, and his wife, who was always a bit flighty and deferred to him on everything, is described as taking the blow, then shaking herself and becoming a strong, capable woman? I'm kind of intrigued by what kind of woman I'm going to become.
I'm not to cronehood yet. Matron still sort of applies. But the sound of widow in my head has power. It is an awful word, in all senses. A woman who has gone through immense pain and is still here.
Widow is a word that always hits me hard. When I have to check those boxes on forms for marital status I still feel that I should check the W box although I remarried.
It is always a part of me, but there is no changing that. Acceptance is a slow process. It happens, but grief has its own timetable.
There is your place to start. I have read that book -- . what will I be , what might have I been if things were different. If something changes where will I be. I have these questions a lot . Which is interesting, because I am happy where I am
ride the wave.
Good to here from you shir