Stop means no. And no means no. So . . . stop.

Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Jun 12, 2014 2:56:50 pm PDT #11313 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I wish there was something we could offer that would help more than virtual hugs and love.

The virtual hugs and love are helping more than you can ever know. I am grateful beyond words to have a safe place to hide and vent, especially a place I can access virtually from anywhere.


msbelle - Jun 12, 2014 3:09:41 pm PDT #11314 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

love to you both sj.


le nubian - Jun 12, 2014 3:19:30 pm PDT #11315 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

good grief sj. I am so sorry for this whole situation and you and your hubby are in my thoughts.


WindSparrow - Jun 12, 2014 3:45:41 pm PDT #11316 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Connie, that sounds like they make lots of effort at comfy, home-y atmosphere. That can only help. May the wolves travel with your hubby to victory.

sj, I wish hope and joy for you. And may the hope and joy of this moment not break your heart in another moment. But if your heart does break by them, may new hope and joy bring healing in their wake.


Vortex - Jun 12, 2014 4:21:20 pm PDT #11317 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

sj, I am so sorry, honey. Also, if you want to get away, I have a guest room and an housekeeper, so my place will actually be clean ;) Not a lot to do in Hartford, but sometimes a change of scenery is nice.


erikaj - Jun 12, 2014 4:30:56 pm PDT #11318 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Confusing. And heartrending, of course. If you need anything besides vibes, don't be afraid to ask.


sj - Jun 12, 2014 4:40:30 pm PDT #11319 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, Vortex that's sweet. TCG has been taking so much PTO for appointments, and he's slammed at work right now,so I don't see us taking a vacation anytime soon. We may go down to Cape Cod in August if Mom lets us use the timeshare.

Confusing. And heartrending, of course. If you need anything besides vibes, don't be afraid to ask.

Can someone go beat up the people who keep telling me that it is better to find out now that there is something wrong? I find it a highly insensitive thing to say to someone with a disability.


Laura - Jun 12, 2014 4:56:18 pm PDT #11320 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Oh sj! I am so sorry you have to deal with the clueless.


erin_obscure - Jun 12, 2014 6:10:02 pm PDT #11321 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

{{{{{sj}}}}}. So sorry, and I'm happy to administer long distance shin kicks for you where applicable.


Zenkitty - Jun 12, 2014 6:11:04 pm PDT #11322 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

sj, some people are so callous. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.