Everybody plays each other. That's all anybody ever does. We play parts.

Saffron ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


P.M. Marc - May 20, 2014 8:34:34 am PDT #10911 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

ASDs are not a mental illness, damn it.

It's different neurology.

(I have an ASD diagnosis. I also have mood disorder characterized by severe anxiety and occasional bouts of serious depression. One is how my brain works, the other is how it doesn't. Basically.)


Steph L. - May 20, 2014 8:39:46 am PDT #10912 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

ASDs are not a mental illness, damn it.

Oh, right, I meant to respond to that earlier.

And...what she said.


Trudy Booth - May 20, 2014 9:04:58 am PDT #10913 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Laura, is there any way to re-frame the discussion as addressing the problem as something other than depression? Hormonal imbalance? Possible early dementia? A pain disorder? There is clearly something awry and any number of things COULD be causing it.

Maybe if you can take the taboo notion of mental illness off the table she can deal with the functional things that are going wrong.


Atropa - May 20, 2014 12:48:59 pm PDT #10914 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I think I've gotten Hubby to stop saying "I don't deserve you." I said to him once, "So that means I should leave you and find someone I do deserve?" Men of the world, this is not a compliment!

Pete has started saying something similar, and it drives me bugnuts. I know it comes from his own self-worth issues and depression, but that doesn't make it less aggravating to hear.


NoiseDesign - May 20, 2014 1:36:10 pm PDT #10915 of 30002
Our wings are not tired

Sorry to jump into the middle of this with something totally unrelated, but I might be going to Hong Kong in a few weeks for some meetings about a potential new project that might also open up a few more opportunities for my company. For all sorts of reasons I can't even mention it elsewhere, and it's crazy making waiting to hear if it is happening and trying to account for what it might mean for my business.


Atropa - May 20, 2014 2:44:22 pm PDT #10916 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Hong Kong! That's a huge deal, ND, and I hope things go as smoothly as possible.


brenda m - May 20, 2014 2:45:18 pm PDT #10917 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh wow. I hope it all connects soon.

I have some very good friends there if you like to have some local contacts.


NoiseDesign - May 20, 2014 3:17:06 pm PDT #10918 of 30002
Our wings are not tired

I'm sure I will want some local contacts if this all happens. The initial trip would be probably a week long for meetings, but then if the whole project goes through I might be out there fora few weeks for installation and then possibly multiple trips back over the year after opening for maintenance.


billytea - May 20, 2014 4:15:03 pm PDT #10919 of 30002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Hong Kong! I wouldn't exactly say that Melbourne is on the way, but it is in the same hemisphere...


Calli - May 20, 2014 4:28:54 pm PDT #10920 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Hong Kong sounds like it would be cool. I hope it works out for you, ND.