Jayne: Yeah, that was some pretty risky sittin' you did there. Wash: That's right, of course, 'cause they wouldn't arrest me if we got boarded, I'm just the pilot. I can always say I was flying the ship by accident.

'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - May 07, 2014 11:40:14 am PDT #10738 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Your innards really need to start taking more care.

Yay for a diagnosis!


EpicTangent - May 07, 2014 12:52:23 pm PDT #10739 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Yay for diagnosis! Here's to a positive prognosis!


le nubian - May 07, 2014 1:10:32 pm PDT #10740 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

erin,

I have had my gall bladder out (and a couple of others here). Unlike with my surgery, sounds like yours won't be laproscopic (sp?), sounds like you may have a longer recovery time?

That is something to consider as you weigh options.

Aside from that, the first several months post-no GP was an intestinal adventure. Still is, but not with the same frequency.


erin_obscure - May 07, 2014 1:28:37 pm PDT #10741 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Ugh, yeah, intestinal adventures are not something I look forward to! Can't imagine any benefit of not having a gallbladder, since i've never had any gallstones (knocks on wood). Surgery is proposed as laprospcopic, with the possibility of having to go to open if...complications? Either way should be back to normal functioning within a wk (lap) or 2 wks (open) and either way up and walking next day.


le nubian - May 07, 2014 1:39:31 pm PDT #10742 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

erin, supposedly most of us have gallstones. it is whether they act up or not.

that's what a doctor told me. don't know if he is a quack.


le nubian - May 07, 2014 1:40:35 pm PDT #10743 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

laproscopic is really good. I didn't eat solid food for about a week afterward. I think their diet restrictions were pretty stupid, I would have preferred to eat other things.

I wonder what the advice is now.


askye - May 07, 2014 3:55:13 pm PDT #10744 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Glad you have a diagnosis and I hope everything goes well.

I'm in NH for sales training and today had issues. I got in an argument with some during a role play exercise. He skipped a step to find out how a customer is going to use the product and what they want I pointed it out (although I did so badly) and he got defensive- I'm the expert not the customer I know what they want. It was frustrating because he just assumed based on 2 non specific comments.

Plus when we did my role play he was the customer but kept talking over me and correcting me. 2 more 8 hour days of this and on the last day the drive home.


Hil R. - May 08, 2014 5:49:17 am PDT #10745 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm not good with not having plans. I don't know whether I'll have a new job next year or not, so I don't know whether I'm moving during the summer or staying here for another year. Which means I don't know whether I can sign up for summer classes. Whether I should be buying boxes and tape, or if I should get a coffee table that fits nicely into my current living room if I see one at a good price. Whether I can stock up on frozen food if it's on sale, or if I should be trying to eat through the stuff that's in my freezer. Should I be trying to digitize some of my current lessons plans, for teaching the same class again next year, or should I be reading through new books to see how they introduce totally different material? Exploring new places around here, or learning about a totally new city? I had a typed schedule for my trip to France several weeks before I left. This kind of uncertainty does not sit will with me, and it's just making me antsy.


omnis_audis - May 08, 2014 7:28:12 am PDT #10746 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Channel that antsy, and start a new hobbie. Learn crochet. Or guitar. Or geocache.


Liese S. - May 08, 2014 8:13:12 am PDT #10747 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Oh, erin, I'm so glad you have a diagnosis at last! I've been worried about you. I hope the treatment affords you some relief.

askye, yeah, I hate that stuff. Especially because I am the customer you are training for. I often come in and have a very specific, perhaps off-label use case for what I want to do, and the employees quite frequently blaze right past what I'm saying. I'm a geek! I have an extensive set-up! I know what I mean when I say I'm trying to get my NAS to communicate with my whole-house media system! Please, just tell me where the dongle is that I need to make it work together.

Hil, I empathize. But try and keep your eye on your longer term goals. If this new opportunity comes through, it will make for an improvement in your life, so it will be worth the intermediary uncertainty and inconvenience. I'm like you, though. I really want to know with a lot of notice, and that's just not how life functions for me.