And what's the fun in becoming an immortal demon if you're not regular, am I right?

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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laura - May 07, 2014 6:49:05 am PDT #10732 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Now I feel bad for making Bobby write to his instructor when he has had issues with his test results. On SEVERAL occasions the teacher has ended up changing it after responding that he was right and that was also a correct answer. And then fixing the rest of the class grades too. This is likely the result of the effort that goes into preparation of your level of tests and the testing prepared by teachers at the state college that are working on maybe getting a teaching certificate someday. The range of quality in his instructors has been significant.

I have also responding to his bitching on scores by responding 'I told you that wasn't what he was looking for' when that is appropriate. That happens a bunch too!


Hil R. - May 07, 2014 7:24:34 am PDT #10733 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

A student wants me to add four points to his grade for "participation" because he showed up at class almost every day. That's not extra credit -- that's bare minimum expectation.


Hil R. - May 07, 2014 7:26:14 am PDT #10734 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Now I feel bad for making Bobby write to his instructor when he has had issues with his test results. On SEVERAL occasions the teacher has ended up changing it after responding that he was right and that was also a correct answer.

That's different. What I'm getting isn't "I think the answer I put down was actually correct, and you marked it wrong." I'm getting, "I need a higher grade. Can you give me a higher grade?"


Laura - May 07, 2014 8:09:46 am PDT #10735 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Oh yeah, I'll lose my scholarship, I'll get in trouble at home, I am such a good person I deserve it. Showing up is something that isn't worth extra points unless it is part of the syllabus as being worth something.


erikaj - May 07, 2014 9:06:18 am PDT #10736 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Some teachers do sort of add that in, but not at student's request, I'm sure.


erin_obscure - May 07, 2014 11:30:59 am PDT #10737 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Yay Dr Esse! (or however your preferred nomenclature)

I have good news on the medical front. FINALLY got a diagnosis on my primary pain source, and it is a labral tear in my right hip. Took most of a year to figure it out, and now, knowing the source and what tends to cause it (ongoing wear and tear, mostly pivoting on a weight-bearing leg) I can look back and see that it has been coming on for years but each time it hurt after dancing or zumba I always thought I just needed to stretch better or avoid a certain move or step.

Anyways, YAY DIAGNOSIS! Have my first 'procedure' of ultrasound-assisted lidocaine/cortisone injection next week and fingers crossed it *might* knock out the pain for a week to a year or altogether. At the very least it'll make it clear whether the pain is coming from the damaged labrum.

Unrelated but discovered as part of all that imaging...my liver adenoma (or 'badenoma' as my friend refers to it) is officially in the hands of a surgeon now. Gonna wait another 4 months to see if cessation of BCP leads to any regression. Hoping it does get at least a little smaller because at the current size and location removing it (which is heavily recommended due to possibility of rupture or turning into a carcinoma at some later time) would also involve removing the gallbladder. While I know I don't *need* my gallbladder, it's never caused me any problems and just happens to be butted up against the adenoma. I much prefer to keep all my bits that have a purpose. Regression might get the adenoma to a size and position where it can be removed without taking the gall bladder with it. *fingers crossed*. Either way, it puts off dealing with surgical reality for another 3-4 months at the least and gives me some time to bank up comp time. Plus my med flex account resets June/July so I can put aside considerably more pre-tax $$ to cover what will be a ridiculously expensive procedure, even with "good" health insurance.

As for the ovarian cyst...just can't fit it into the picture ATM and I've had enough over the years just reabsorb that waiting and seeing is my primary plan. GYN appt on Friday will confirm whether it's still there/growing/shrinking/whatever. I'll think about it again then.


brenda m - May 07, 2014 11:40:14 am PDT #10738 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Your innards really need to start taking more care.

Yay for a diagnosis!


EpicTangent - May 07, 2014 12:52:23 pm PDT #10739 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Yay for diagnosis! Here's to a positive prognosis!


le nubian - May 07, 2014 1:10:32 pm PDT #10740 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

erin,

I have had my gall bladder out (and a couple of others here). Unlike with my surgery, sounds like yours won't be laproscopic (sp?), sounds like you may have a longer recovery time?

That is something to consider as you weigh options.

Aside from that, the first several months post-no GP was an intestinal adventure. Still is, but not with the same frequency.


erin_obscure - May 07, 2014 1:28:37 pm PDT #10741 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Ugh, yeah, intestinal adventures are not something I look forward to! Can't imagine any benefit of not having a gallbladder, since i've never had any gallstones (knocks on wood). Surgery is proposed as laprospcopic, with the possibility of having to go to open if...complications? Either way should be back to normal functioning within a wk (lap) or 2 wks (open) and either way up and walking next day.