Both sound like the right decisions.
Mal: So we run. Nandi: I understand, Captain Reynolds. You have your people to think of, same as me. And this ain't your fight. Mal: Don't believe you do understand, Nandi. I said 'we run'. We.
'Heart Of Gold'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Laura - Mar 25, 2014 3:57:00 am PDT #10061 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
Zenkitty - Mar 25, 2014 6:32:15 am PDT #10062 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Connie and Dana, glad to hear good news on the cancer front. Happy anniversary, bt! Daniel, sorry about the job. Sean, I would hate living with a roommate too, even if they were totally nice and paid their rent. Hil, if your gut feeling is NOPE I say go with it.
Marriage equality really does seem to be on a roll now with so many courts calling bullshit on the marriage restriction laws.
Yeah. It's good to see. It would also be fun to email each announcement of a new state "falling" to my horrible uncle, if I were the sort of person who would do that.
hookiee
Everyone knows hookiee has two e's!
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 7:48:23 am PDT #10063 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Argh! I can't do ANYTHING around my own fucking home! VIDEO CONFERENCE CALLS ALL THE FUCKING TIME EATING ALL MY DAMNED BANDWIDTH! I WANT MY HOME BACK!!!!!!
msbelle - Mar 25, 2014 7:51:23 am PDT #10064 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
Do you all not have separate rooms?
Is it possible to talk to him about any of the issues?
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 7:58:48 am PDT #10065 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
We do have separate bedrooms, but he commandeered the dining room table as his workspace when he moved in, and it took a week or two before the full impact of that decision sunk in.
As far as saying something...
He's going to be moving out in three weeks.
Also, Fuckhead the Fucking Lying Thief (ex-roommate) left me burned and fucked over so badly, I'm constantly worried that if I say something, like "Can you turn that down?" or "Can you go into your room?" or "Can you pay your rent?" the response will be "Go fuck yourself, I'm moving out and fucking you over for a ton of money."
Fuckhead left me feeling like I have no right to do anything in my own home, and I'm having a hard time overcoming that.
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 8:09:23 am PDT #10066 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Also, current roommate is doing his job, which means he's earning money to pay his rent, which makes me hesitant to do anything that disrupts that.
Scrappy - Mar 25, 2014 8:14:32 am PDT #10067 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Yeah, you can out up with anything for three weeks, right?
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 8:17:51 am PDT #10068 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
That's what I keep telling myself. I knew when he moved in it was very short term, so I was willing to put up with almost anything. Still, this guy has surprised me.
On the other hand, I have a list of questions to ask prospective new tenants now.
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 8:23:10 am PDT #10069 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Do you chew with your mouth open? (Maybe I'll just provide snacks, and see what happens)
Do you hawk loogies in the shower?
Do you work from home? If so, can you set yourself up for that in your room?
Do you pay your rent? (Although, because of Fuckhead, my landlord is now requiring a credit check of any new tenants, so that shouldn't be a problem any more)
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 8:28:57 am PDT #10070 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Do you know what a Death Star is?