Do you all not have separate rooms?
Is it possible to talk to him about any of the issues?
I like money better than people. People can so rarely be exchanged for goods and/or services!
Willow ,'Showtime'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
msbelle - Mar 25, 2014 7:51:23 am PDT #10064 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 7:58:48 am PDT #10065 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
We do have separate bedrooms, but he commandeered the dining room table as his workspace when he moved in, and it took a week or two before the full impact of that decision sunk in.
As far as saying something...
He's going to be moving out in three weeks.
Also, Fuckhead the Fucking Lying Thief (ex-roommate) left me burned and fucked over so badly, I'm constantly worried that if I say something, like "Can you turn that down?" or "Can you go into your room?" or "Can you pay your rent?" the response will be "Go fuck yourself, I'm moving out and fucking you over for a ton of money."
Fuckhead left me feeling like I have no right to do anything in my own home, and I'm having a hard time overcoming that.
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 8:09:23 am PDT #10066 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Also, current roommate is doing his job, which means he's earning money to pay his rent, which makes me hesitant to do anything that disrupts that.
Scrappy - Mar 25, 2014 8:14:32 am PDT #10067 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Yeah, you can out up with anything for three weeks, right?
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 8:17:51 am PDT #10068 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
That's what I keep telling myself. I knew when he moved in it was very short term, so I was willing to put up with almost anything. Still, this guy has surprised me.
On the other hand, I have a list of questions to ask prospective new tenants now.
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 8:23:10 am PDT #10069 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Do you chew with your mouth open? (Maybe I'll just provide snacks, and see what happens)
Do you hawk loogies in the shower?
Do you work from home? If so, can you set yourself up for that in your room?
Do you pay your rent? (Although, because of Fuckhead, my landlord is now requiring a credit check of any new tenants, so that shouldn't be a problem any more)
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 8:28:57 am PDT #10070 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Do you know what a Death Star is?
Scrappy - Mar 25, 2014 8:34:21 am PDT #10071 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
That last is the most important!
Sean K - Mar 25, 2014 8:48:41 am PDT #10072 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Agreed. Maybe I should just start with, "Does the name 'Buffy Summers' mean anything to you?
WindSparrow - Mar 25, 2014 9:04:07 am PDT #10073 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Team Buffy or Team Faith?