No, it's not weird. It a bit of control over something you ultimately have no control over (
Your cat is dying. You can't control that. You can control the planning logistics of your life around that .)
I don't know that I said it here, but I had this elaborate roadmap when Mister Kitty was clearly going downhill. And ultimately, it sorta went according to plan and kind of not.
You'll just do what needs doing. But before that, you can lay plans in because it makes you feel better.
Which reminds me, I need to pick up new food for Devi's ageing kidneys and doses of kitty probiotics, cause yep, she's on antibiotics and the predictable is happening. Dealing with another sick kitty post-Thanksgiving for the second year running made me really, well, Monday was not a good day for a whole host of reasons, and that was sadly just the beginning.
Say, bets on what the dr told my dad today??
Our Prime Minister wants you to know that the end of the world is coming: [link]
I took a bath with a purple bath bomb. I smell really good now.
did you talk with your mom today sara? do they have a plan?
I might be slightly purple.
No. I'm not calling. If they can't be arsed, they'll just get an earful tomorrow or whenever. I figure they are avoiding me. And if they want to play that, well, they'll have to pay for that.
When my brother in law's grandmother had advanced Alzheimer's she was very child-like and passive. She used to sit and watch cartoons with her great-grandson and just eased through the last years of her life.
suela, I wish your mom's illness had taken that path and it wasn't so very heartbreaking and difficult to deal with.
My grandmother was like that her last couple of years. After an initial bit of argumentativeness (and hallucinations) after her strokes, she settled down to become very quiet and usually pretty happy.
