I worked myself up so much over the off-hand remark thing that I was crying at work. I DO NOT CRY AT WORK. Fucker. ANyway, I think I got in front of it. I remembered that another boss, but not the big boss was also standing right there so I went to him with my concern that something I said as a ha ha comment was being talked about to people outside of our department as an inappropriate thing to say. ANd I asked his advice and we talked through various possibilities and he was kinda shocked that this might be a "thing" and then he apologized that I was having to even worry about it.

Then a vendor just brought me a Thank you gift for being a good customer (pumpkin spice cake) and I am feeling better.

The End!

Well, it seems the people that did the research don't think it's a new species, and haven't said it's a new subspecies either, so that's all analysis/discussion after the report: [link]

What are the other species of lion called (as opposed to leo krugeri or other subspecies)?

This reflects the way that an evolutionary perspective messes up the idea of species. There are American Lions and Eurasian Cave Lions, both now extinct. Some people say they were Leo and some not. But most no longer find the question very interesting. Species is a de facto placeholder of some value in communication. It's good for indexing articles in Web of Science. But its multiplicity of meanings leaves it suspect as a way of understanding biology. And its not where the fun parts of biology are right now.

You never asked if they think it's a defect or taste, did you? You only asked if they wanted to mate.

No. The only question of interest is what they can distinguish, not what they think it is. What we know is that they respond to the song of a bird from a different flyway in the same way that they respond to the song of a bird from their own flyway that is developmentally abnormal. If you play a song from a different species (!) you get a different reaction still.

I have heard nothing from the husband regarding his job interview. If he's still talking with them that's good. But I am bad at waiting.

Dana - I'd take no news as good news.

Just got off the phone with my manager. Today's performance review was basically a preliminary review to make sure he understands what I'm doing and where I'm excelling/lacking. He also shared with me the comments from a few of my project managers. Basically, for them, I walk on water. I was blushing for half of our discussion.

Bottom line from this call is that I need to fill out more "exceed expectation" examples on my self eval and get that back to him tomorrow. Dang it, I'm blushing again, just writing about the call.

A Brooklyn couple does a music video announcing their split.

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Woot Suzi on the glowing review!

And Kat, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling so crappy lately. Would love to take you out for a treat, and remind you of all the ways of your fabulousness, and give you some clothes for the kids. Fighting with your sweetie is always hard.

I was busy all morning but now I am getting nothing done. I feel like I needed a day to do not much of anything, but I have too much to do to keep not doing anything.

yay for glowing interview, Suzi!

Kat & Amy, I have been dodging some of their calls, but it makes my dad feel even more isolated, and I don't want to do that to him.

As for Mom, I have hung up on her often enough that she now gets all snippy about it, but it doesn't change her behavior. Amazing: she can't remember moving into the new apartment, but by god she remembers that I've hung up on her. Priorities, I swear.

Consuela has anyone really laid into your Mom?

If she does not remember moving into the new place, what is her current complaint?