Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sarameg - Jul 15, 2013 9:36:09 am PDT #29269 of 30001

FINALLY called about a downspout replacement, and this time I have an actual time that they'll come out to make a bid, so it won't get 'lost' again.

Now need to compile garage door places, so I can finally start using my garage. Couple people had names, have to track that down. Will probably end up being where my August mortgage payment goes. (Because of the timing of all of this, I don't have an August payment. Last on old mortgage was this month, first of new is September.)


sarameg - Jul 15, 2013 9:38:19 am PDT #29270 of 30001

(Note, this is my attempt to not 'waste' a vacation day. Because I fee like if I'm taking a vacation day, I Ought To Do Something, be it vacationing or accomplishing something needed. As opposed to sitting on my ass & noodling around because it is too damn hot to want to even attempt the Outside.)


le nubian - Jul 15, 2013 9:54:05 am PDT #29271 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

I have a whole twitter list full of people talking about tossing hot pockets into the deep fryer.

Now I'm thinking about how good that must taste!

Unhealthy as hell, but probably tasty.

They have then gone on to talk about rolling a pop tart in dough mix and frying those.


Hil R. - Jul 15, 2013 9:54:15 am PDT #29272 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I am trying very hard not to respond to my cousin's friend, who is white, who says that the Trayvon Martin case has nothing to do with race, and that her kids know better than to walk around in a neighborhood where they don't live at night in the rain wearing a hoodie. I am nearly positive that I have done that -- put on a sweatshirt, walk to a friend's apartment, start to walk home, it starts raining, there aren't any cabs, so I put up the hood of my sweatshirt and keep walking. And I was taught how to keep an eye out and stay safe myself when I'm walking around in a city at night, but no one ever thought it necessary to teach me how to not be seen as a threat, and if the reason for that isn't obvious, then this woman is living in some kind of fantasy world. (This was in response to a link about how young black men are taught how to appear not-scary. She said she's taught her kids the same things that are mentioned in the link as things that black parents teach their sons.)

(OK, and from looking at this person's page, her kids are both female, blonde, and younger than 14 or so. I now call total bullshit on the idea that she has taught them how to appear non-threatening to strangers. And I responded to her, because apparently my "I will not respond" willpower can last only ten minutes.)


Lee - Jul 15, 2013 10:01:22 am PDT #29273 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Thanks Dana! I will look at all of those tonight


§ ita § - Jul 15, 2013 10:12:23 am PDT #29274 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

OK, and from looking at this person's page, her kids are both female, blonde, and younger than 14 or so. I now call total bullshit on the idea that she has taught them how to appear non-threatening to strangers

Being on the same sidewalk as the the epitome of the "protected flower of white society" used to be fatal for the Trayvon Martins of the world NOT THAT LONG AGO & NOT THAT FAR AWAY from where it turned out to be fatal for him to be a black teenager trying to walk in the rain.

They had not unlocked my email by the time I got back to my desk, so I exerted my "I was your favourite conversational co-worker!" card (I was trying to play by rules) and got it unlocked while I was on the phone. Guess I will be back to work.


Jessica - Jul 15, 2013 10:12:41 am PDT #29275 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

OK, and from looking at this person's page, her kids are both female, blonde, and younger than 14 or so. I now call total bullshit on the idea that she has taught them how to appear non-threatening to strangers. And I responded to her, because apparently my "I will not respond" willpower can last only ten minutes.

I wonder, if GZ had raped a white teenager instead of murdering a black one, would it still be the fault of the teenager's clothing?


Jesse - Jul 15, 2013 10:14:14 am PDT #29276 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oof.


le nubian - Jul 15, 2013 10:19:43 am PDT #29277 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

I wonder, if GZ had raped a white teenager instead of murdering a black one, would it still be the fault of the teenager's clothing?

seriously. I have no patience for any of this shit.


le nubian - Jul 15, 2013 10:20:37 am PDT #29278 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

BTW,

he did sexual assault one of his family members for 10 years. This is among his violent acts besides assaulting a police officer.