Urm, that's all I got. Should go run errands instead of lazing about on the internet. Or go wash the dishes from last night's cookie-baking and then run errands.

Mmmmmm cookies.

No more Iron Man movies, Stark in 2 more Avengers: [link]

Good! Getting to that article, I had to go by a "For Your Consideration" ad for Political Animals, which reminded me that James Wolk played the good twin and Sebastian Stan the bad twin. Good times.

You guys, I really want a new job. I think three years is my limit! I'm just so over it now, and need to find some good prospects.

The last time I looked at the research, the academic advantages of holding back disappear by third grade, and overall it's better to put your kid in a more stimulating environment earlier.

I found this to be true for Franny, but I am leery of applying statistical models to actual kids. Each kid is different. Franny is fairly immature for her age (but I wouldn't say she's behind her peers, just near the rear) academically she's thriving, so maybe some parallels with Em. All in all I'm fine with our decision although I had many doubts over the years. As for Isaac, he's born in Spring so there was no issue over which year to start him, and while he's academically way ahead of his grade, emotionally and socially he's where he should be.

I would look at Ryan as a whole package and try to best serve both social and academic needs. I've seen parents hold back kids who were academically advanced in order to meet a perceived social need, and I ultimately think they did their child a bit of a disservice as the kids wound up bored in K & 1 and thus still acted out, so the attempt to meet the child's social needs wasn't effective. Whereas other kids who needed to catch up both academically and socially really thrive when they are given that extra year. And some schools have a 2 year kindergarten for younger kids, which I think is a great idea. If that had been an option for Franny, I would have done it.

You guys, I really want a new job. I think three years is my limit! I'm just so over it now, and need to find some good prospects.

Right there with you! But I've been here for 5.5 years. A good job in my field has opened up for me...but maybe I want a career change?

What Sue said, except that it's not quite 5.5 years for me yet.

Also there are no good jobs open in my field right now, and even if there were I feel kind of unemployable.

Good thing people here like me.

A good job in my field has opened up for me...but maybe I want a career change?

ALSO MY PROBLEM! It's so much easier to get another job just like this one....

I had a dream the other night that I received a job offer. Eventually I decided to take it, as it paid more than my current job.

Now I just have to remember who offered me the job. Perhaps their HR will contact me in a dream in the future.

Re: the NOLA discussion, the Orange Beach/perdido key/pensacola/gulf shores area (on the Florida/Alabama border) is closer to New Orleans than Destin and provides a pretty similar beach environment. Not quite as many nice resorts, but equally pretty beaches. I suggest the Perdido area - it is a little calmer, but with the tradeoff of fewer nearby food choices.

The setup This is nearly the full text of an email I received today:

With apology, this week was very meeting rich and I scheduled a lunch for us today, but apparently did not let you know! Can we find another time?

1. "meeting rich" - kill me fucking now. NOW.

2. This meeting is for me to help said person. She asked me for my help 2 weeks ago. I asked her to let me know when she is free because I am flexible. She scheduled a meeting and didn't let me know. Which is the biggest WTF I have ever heard. There are just 2 people who will be at this meeting. One did not know about the meeting.

3. Why don't people start off suggesting days and times? It would be a lot fucking easier. Especially if you schedule the meeting and let the other person KNOW.