Tact is just not saying true stuff. I'll pass.

Cordelia ,'Dirty Girls'


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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Gudanov - May 23, 2013 7:53:57 am PDT #23402 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

If I could get a burrito quickly then there wouldn't even be a question.


tommyrot - May 23, 2013 7:56:51 am PDT #23403 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

There was a business in San Francisco that planned on delivering burritos to your location by autonomous quadricopter. Sadly, the FAA wouldn't allow it.


Kate P. - May 23, 2013 7:58:50 am PDT #23404 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I would get the sandwich, myself, but I see the conundrum.

So, remember that job I found out about a couple of weeks ago, where the director of the school wanted to meet with me right away to talk about the position? We met at a coffee shop that Sunday, Mother's Day, and talked for an hour -- mostly him telling me about the job and the school -- and then he said he'd set up a time for me to come into the school and meet some other people. He asked if I'd be free this week, and I said yes.

Aaaaaaaand, that was the last time I heard from him. No emails last week or this week about setting up a time to come in, no phone calls or anything. I talked with the current library director last week (she's a friend) and emailed the director of the school the next day, saying I'd met with her and talked about the job, and reiterating my interest in the position. That was last Wednesday. Is there anything else I can do at this point? Should I just conclude that he's decided to go with someone else?

Also, I just realized TODAY that I never sent a thank-you card after our meeting on Mother's Day. I didn't think of it at the time because it wasn't a formal job interview, but now I'm berating myself for not sending one, and am paranoid that that's why he hasn't responded to my email. ARGH. It's way too late to send one now, right?


-t - May 23, 2013 8:03:13 am PDT #23405 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I've never sent a thank you card after an interview. I'm just not that organized.

That sounds like a nice possibility to mull, Connie. GOod pondering to you.


brenda m - May 23, 2013 8:04:48 am PDT #23406 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I would email again and see if you can get an update. From my perspective, when I'm a hiring manager, your follow up the next day covers it - formal thank you notes are not really a big deal anymore. Obviously that will vary, but I wouldn't sweat it.


Jessica - May 23, 2013 8:11:26 am PDT #23407 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Is there no Seamless/Grubhub in your area, Gud?

(I am such a spoiled New York brat. If I can't get food delivered, some days I just don't eat.)


Consuela - May 23, 2013 8:16:42 am PDT #23408 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Mull, mull, mull

Never hurts to apply, Connie! Unless you think the act of applying will cause problems with your current supervisor.

I've been reading a lot of Ask a Manager, and she has some good advice, and some warnings, for people looking to relocate within a company.

Good luck, Kate! Me, I just bought a new box of cards to send as thank-you notes for interviews. If I can ever get another one.

OTOH, I am wearing my new colorblock dress, which is really comfortable, and rather brighter than that picture, and it looks great with a black cashmere cardigan: professional but not stuffy.

So at least I look good, and not like I'm in mourning for my job.

Also a former coworker just gave me a hot pork bun. NOM.


Kate P. - May 23, 2013 8:18:15 am PDT #23409 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I would email again and see if you can get an update.

Really? I was thinking that might be more annoying than helpful. Isn't there some sort of guideline like don't email more than once in [x] period of time? It's been a week and a day since my last email to him.


Dana - May 23, 2013 8:20:23 am PDT #23410 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I would consider a week without any kind of communication plenty of time.


-t - May 23, 2013 8:21:37 am PDT #23411 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yeah, a week seems long enough to wait before following up.

Cute dress, Consuela! Mmm, pork bun, my favorite!