Buffy: You tossed that vamp like he was a... little teeny vamp. Riley: You wanna go again? C'mon. I bet this place is just teeming with aerodynamic vampires.

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-t - May 23, 2013 8:03:13 am PDT #23405 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I've never sent a thank you card after an interview. I'm just not that organized.

That sounds like a nice possibility to mull, Connie. GOod pondering to you.


brenda m - May 23, 2013 8:04:48 am PDT #23406 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I would email again and see if you can get an update. From my perspective, when I'm a hiring manager, your follow up the next day covers it - formal thank you notes are not really a big deal anymore. Obviously that will vary, but I wouldn't sweat it.


Jessica - May 23, 2013 8:11:26 am PDT #23407 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Is there no Seamless/Grubhub in your area, Gud?

(I am such a spoiled New York brat. If I can't get food delivered, some days I just don't eat.)


Consuela - May 23, 2013 8:16:42 am PDT #23408 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Mull, mull, mull

Never hurts to apply, Connie! Unless you think the act of applying will cause problems with your current supervisor.

I've been reading a lot of Ask a Manager, and she has some good advice, and some warnings, for people looking to relocate within a company.

Good luck, Kate! Me, I just bought a new box of cards to send as thank-you notes for interviews. If I can ever get another one.

OTOH, I am wearing my new colorblock dress, which is really comfortable, and rather brighter than that picture, and it looks great with a black cashmere cardigan: professional but not stuffy.

So at least I look good, and not like I'm in mourning for my job.

Also a former coworker just gave me a hot pork bun. NOM.


Kate P. - May 23, 2013 8:18:15 am PDT #23409 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I would email again and see if you can get an update.

Really? I was thinking that might be more annoying than helpful. Isn't there some sort of guideline like don't email more than once in [x] period of time? It's been a week and a day since my last email to him.


Dana - May 23, 2013 8:20:23 am PDT #23410 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I would consider a week without any kind of communication plenty of time.


-t - May 23, 2013 8:21:37 am PDT #23411 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yeah, a week seems long enough to wait before following up.

Cute dress, Consuela! Mmm, pork bun, my favorite!


javachik - May 23, 2013 8:21:50 am PDT #23412 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Connie, I'd DEFINITELY apply for the QA job - sounds like it has a lot of perks and would be an upward move for you!

I know thank you notes seem very old fashioned, but I can tell you from very recent experience with new hires (both mine, and by colleagues), thank you notes actually made the difference between close candidates. It shows that you have more than a passing interest, attention to detail, and the ability to follow up. Now, none of the thank you notes were handwritten - they were all email. And they still made the difference.


Kate P. - May 23, 2013 8:27:16 am PDT #23413 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I am generally all over thank you notes, so am super embarrassed that I didn't send one this time. I don't think I actually said "thank you for meeting with me" in my followup email, which I definitely should have.

But, OK, I can send him another email today. Hmm, must ponder what it should say. I'll probably ask for feedback before I send it.


Kate P. - May 23, 2013 8:40:23 am PDT #23414 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

OK, how's this?

Dear [name],

Thank you again for meeting with me last week about the library director position. I know it's a very busy time for you, but I'm wondering if you're still interested in having me to come to the school to meet with the library staff? I am available tomorrow afternoon as well as all day next Tuesday; I'll be out of town Wednesday through Friday of next week, but could also come in anytime during the week of June 3 if that's better for you.

Thanks, and I hope the end of the semester is going well!

Best wishes,

Kate

(I mentioned my limited availability next week in my last email, FWIW.)