Husband is visiting his father, and his father is very disgruntled about the election. But when pushed on specifics, he can't back them up with facts. Basically, I avoided saying to my husband that his father is a little bit racist and a whole lot classist. Bonus points for me.

But it's upsetting, because his parents are very educated people, with a very wide experience of the world.

Well, yesterday when I was in Bakersfield, tr woman I was working with was talking about working with a patient on Wednesday and not asking her something and said "because she was very upset, of course"...an it took me a second to understand the "of course" meant that her candidate didn't win. Oh...I'm so used to my democrat and gay bubbles that I forget that sometimes people see well-employed white woman and think I'd agree with them on shit.

the pro-life women I know are almost all, I think, anti-sex out of marriage. I clearly do not engage in the discussions with them much, but that is a chunk of it.

Yeah, that's a pretty big disconnect. What still shocks me is how many people who are anti-abortion are also anti-birth control and even anti-sex education. I mean, I shouldn't be shocked; clearly to many people, (1) birth control and abortion are almost the same thing, and (2) only those sluts who have sex without being married would need either, and they don't deserve to have them. But, you know, in REALITY, an excellent way to avoid people having abortions is to educate them about sex and give them access to birth control!

I think the anti-sex education thing is the one I scratch my head at most. Because clearly, if no one ever teaches kids about sex, they'll never be curious enough to experiment with it on their own, right?

I'm single issue if a candidate is vocal about trying to relegate me to second class citizen status, but otherwise tend to vote for whomever I think will do the best job for the most people.

Pretty much. Still, I align with the Dems on pretty much every other issue as well, so that worked out.

I think part of it is people are worried that sex education will teach that sex feels good (it's a message anyone can get anywhere besides schools but people don't want teachers saying that sex feels good) because sex shouldn't feel good. It's a sinful dirty thing that led to the fall of Adam and the only way it's acceptable at all is when a husband initiates it in order to try and have a baby.

And the Song of Songs is all allegorical and has nothing to do at all with people or sex or real actual breast at all.

I just get frustrated with the people who complain that the issue of contraception and abortion isn't a "economic" issue and shouldn't be debated during the election. As if controlling reproduction doesn't directly affect a woman's economic situation. Imagine my eyes rolling forever on this one.

Has billytea seen this?

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Jilli, are those the prices I should expect to pay? I think that's more expensive than the dress. Which--if it's a thing it's a thing. I hadn't been able to find burgundy at all outside of multi-skirt packages, so that's a step in the right direction. I do not have burgundy ribbon, but that'l be trivial.

I think the anti-sex education thing is the one I scratch my head at most. Because clearly, if no one ever teaches kids about sex, they'll never be curious enough to experiment with it on their own, right?

Heh, one of the most fun things about one of my teaching jobs was that the PE teacher (who was, by default, the sex ed teacher) was uncomfortable talking about sex and wished aloud someone else would take on a class. So, duh, I did 'em and MAN it was fun doing the anonymous "ask any question about sex on a piece of paper" thing and reading the "the new white English teacher will FAINT" questions:

"Now I don't know what gender your sex partner is, but giving head -- which is also referred to as oral sex; it's called cunnilingus if a person performs it on a woman, and fellatio if performed on a man -- CAN give you an STD in the mouth. And answering another question I see here, if you are a woman and you swallow, you won't get pregnant, but you might get an STD. SO here's condoms; I'm gonna show you the right way to put one on...But first -- (stretches normal condom over clenched fist without it breaking) if a partner claims they can't wear rubber because they need a Magnum...well,if their junk if bigger than my fist and forearm, you probably want to run away."

I just wanted to pat them all gently on the heads and say "Close your dropped jaws, y'all; a bug's gonna fly up in there!"

Good times...

damn, why weren't you teaching me sex ed.

it wasn't like that when I was in school!