Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Matt the Bruins fan - Nov 09, 2012 6:21:23 pm PST #220 of 30001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I think the anti-sex education thing is the one I scratch my head at most. Because clearly, if no one ever teaches kids about sex, they'll never be curious enough to experiment with it on their own, right?


Glamcookie - Nov 09, 2012 6:23:21 pm PST #221 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

I'm single issue if a candidate is vocal about trying to relegate me to second class citizen status, but otherwise tend to vote for whomever I think will do the best job for the most people.

Pretty much. Still, I align with the Dems on pretty much every other issue as well, so that worked out.


askye - Nov 09, 2012 6:28:52 pm PST #222 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

I think part of it is people are worried that sex education will teach that sex feels good (it's a message anyone can get anywhere besides schools but people don't want teachers saying that sex feels good) because sex shouldn't feel good. It's a sinful dirty thing that led to the fall of Adam and the only way it's acceptable at all is when a husband initiates it in order to try and have a baby.

And the Song of Songs is all allegorical and has nothing to do at all with people or sex or real actual breast at all.


Cashmere - Nov 09, 2012 6:33:30 pm PST #223 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

I just get frustrated with the people who complain that the issue of contraception and abortion isn't a "economic" issue and shouldn't be debated during the election. As if controlling reproduction doesn't directly affect a woman's economic situation. Imagine my eyes rolling forever on this one.

Has billytea seen this?

[link]


§ ita § - Nov 09, 2012 6:40:59 pm PST #224 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Jilli, are those the prices I should expect to pay? I think that's more expensive than the dress. Which--if it's a thing it's a thing. I hadn't been able to find burgundy at all outside of multi-skirt packages, so that's a step in the right direction. I do not have burgundy ribbon, but that'l be trivial.


Strix - Nov 09, 2012 6:45:32 pm PST #225 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I think the anti-sex education thing is the one I scratch my head at most. Because clearly, if no one ever teaches kids about sex, they'll never be curious enough to experiment with it on their own, right?

Heh, one of the most fun things about one of my teaching jobs was that the PE teacher (who was, by default, the sex ed teacher) was uncomfortable talking about sex and wished aloud someone else would take on a class. So, duh, I did 'em and MAN it was fun doing the anonymous "ask any question about sex on a piece of paper" thing and reading the "the new white English teacher will FAINT" questions:

"Now I don't know what gender your sex partner is, but giving head -- which is also referred to as oral sex; it's called cunnilingus if a person performs it on a woman, and fellatio if performed on a man -- CAN give you an STD in the mouth. And answering another question I see here, if you are a woman and you swallow, you won't get pregnant, but you might get an STD. SO here's condoms; I'm gonna show you the right way to put one on...But first -- (stretches normal condom over clenched fist without it breaking) if a partner claims they can't wear rubber because they need a Magnum...well,if their junk if bigger than my fist and forearm, you probably want to run away."

I just wanted to pat them all gently on the heads and say "Close your dropped jaws, y'all; a bug's gonna fly up in there!"

Good times...


le nubian - Nov 09, 2012 6:53:48 pm PST #226 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

damn, why weren't you teaching me sex ed.

it wasn't like that when I was in school!


§ ita § - Nov 09, 2012 6:55:05 pm PST #227 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm wondering--if this [link] is a given, what's the alternative? Isn't Latin flawed the same way? Where's the solution?

well,if their junk if bigger than my fist and forearm, you probably want to run away.

I think you're being judgemental about what things go in what orifices. Don't be size queen shaming.


Trudy Booth - Nov 09, 2012 7:06:55 pm PST #228 of 30001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

That sounds fun, Strix. My youth group in high school had an overnight at the church and every year someone would try and throw something in the question box to "freak out" the pastor and other assorted grown-ups. Never ever worked. The best one I recall was "What is 69" and the reply was the older very dignified fairly staid gentleman who replied by holding his arms across his chest and wiggling his fingers at his elbows. He didn't even crack a smile. Genius.

My parents are Catholic and seriously pro-life. I'm quite confident that life of the mother would not be an exception for them. Also completely opposed to death penalty on the same moral grounds. Yet, they voted for Obama this time and last because their religious beliefs and their political beliefs are distinct things.

My Super Catholic Aunt Mary Jo of pope-killing fame gets very adamant about this. "YOU (the government) make medicine safe. WE'LL (the church) talk people out of it. That's OUR job."


Strix - Nov 09, 2012 7:36:06 pm PST #229 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I think you're being judgemental about what things go in what orifices. Don't be size queen shaming.

Eh, I'm bold, but basically wanted to make the point that "Baby, my dick is too big for that rubber you got, and I'm outta Magnums! Just this once, baby, it'll be fine!" is bullshit.

I got enough sideeyes from other teachers for doing the proper condom application demonstration; I wasn't gonna talk stretching devices for orifices for those who like 'em big to a bunch of 14-18 y.o.'s!

And Le Nub, it isn't like that in TOO many schools. But I was DAMNED if that teacher's shyness was gonna let my kids think that if you had sex standing up, you couldn't get pregnant, and other foolishness.