Dawn: I thought you were adequate. Giles: And the accolades keep pouring in. I'd best take my leave before my head swells any larger. Good night.

'First Date'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Consuela - Apr 02, 2013 2:23:54 pm PDT #16974 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Does anyone know if I can COBRA if I quit

Yup, you certainly can.

msbelle, I would type up your protest to his written notice, and give it, and his write-up, to HR. Note that you don't have anything documented on his complaints.

Also, how is it a Final Written Notice? Did they give you other warnings?


-t - Apr 02, 2013 2:23:58 pm PDT #16975 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Lots of vibes, msbelle. I hope you can find something not nearly so awful quickly.


Consuela - Apr 02, 2013 2:24:31 pm PDT #16976 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Also: I'm very sorry, it sounds like your boss is impossible. Might be worth finding out if he's burned through previous assistants, and using that to talk to HR.


le nubian - Apr 02, 2013 2:24:32 pm PDT #16977 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

oh msbelle. I am so sorry.


flea - Apr 02, 2013 2:25:34 pm PDT #16978 of 30001
information libertarian

msbelle, all the job-ma to you.


lisah - Apr 02, 2013 2:27:53 pm PDT #16979 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

Wishing you a MUCH better job that deserves you, msbelle!! And, I second what Consuela said.


Rick - Apr 02, 2013 2:27:58 pm PDT #16980 of 30001

But part of the reason I took this job is my last company decided to change from 23 days PTO to 17.not ok.

I've been at the same job for 25 years, and the topic of vacation days or sick days has never come up.

Academia is a strange place.

Edit: My response to meara was poor timing for msbelle's bad news. I wish you the job you deserve msbelle!


msbelle - Apr 02, 2013 2:28:55 pm PDT #16981 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

oh his previous assistant is still there, she is the one that has had issues with tons of people on campus. She has been written up on several occasions, never given a final written notice though.

Yes, I was written up before. I submitted a written rebuttal to that one, not that anything seems to matter from it.

I will write up my arguments, but like I said, it is a futile situation. HR is not at all in anyone there to be an advocate for me.

It will be more work and probably take longer, but the best solution is probably to leave the company all together.


Consuela - Apr 02, 2013 2:31:24 pm PDT #16982 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

the best solution is probably to leave the company all together.

No doubt, but you want to leave on your terms, if you can.


Jesse - Apr 02, 2013 2:48:27 pm PDT #16983 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Jesus Christ, msbelle -- what a mess. I'm sorry your boss is the worst, and wish you all the best in getting out of there ASAP.