Angel: Just admit it: you think you're gonna ride in, save the day, and sweep Buffy off her--Spike: Like you're not thinking the same thing. Angel: I'm already seeing somebody. Spike: What, dog girl?

'The Girl in Question'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Cass - Nov 19, 2012 4:56:02 pm PST #1513 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

My uncle and uncle-in-law lived in ABQ and really enjoyed it. Met there even. I believe they still have quite a few friends there and visit. If you want recs, info, tips and tricks.

I loved visiting them. I've thought that ABQ could be an interesting place to live.


billytea - Nov 19, 2012 4:59:09 pm PST #1514 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I approve of the existence of Albuquerque, as it's one of the very few places in the US that can give our place names a run for their money.


billytea - Nov 19, 2012 5:00:54 pm PST #1515 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Check it: a most excellent quiz in English history. [link]


brenda m - Nov 19, 2012 5:01:04 pm PST #1516 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Plus it gives you an excuse to do Bugs Bunny voice.


Dana - Nov 19, 2012 5:01:35 pm PST #1517 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

People who live there must get tired of left turn jokes, right? I mean, you still have to make them.


shrift - Nov 19, 2012 5:01:44 pm PST #1518 of 30001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

She is from a small town with little diversity and apparently many of the townspeople thought her groom and his family were Black!

My grandmother thought that my cousin's wife was black for a while. Her family is Filipino.

I also laughed my ass off.


Jesse - Nov 19, 2012 5:03:44 pm PST #1519 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I'm asking about being white, which is something I know a lot less about.

Oh yeah, like Sophia said, most white people I know wouldn't describe someone by race, because for white people it goes without saying, and for everyone else it somehow feels racist to say.


Cass - Nov 19, 2012 5:03:58 pm PST #1520 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I'm asking about being white, which is something I know a lot less about.

I've been trying to be a lot more aware of this and listen for it, yeah, race is generally only mentioned as a descriptor when it's not white. White is default.


§ ita § - Nov 19, 2012 5:11:05 pm PST #1521 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Simon Baker's American accent is really bad this week. Maybe it's because he's yelling? But that whole bit in the desert was really obvious.

The other thing I don't know about is being black American. I feel pretty confident saying that other Jamaicans talk just like Sophia said--we'll tell you the race and hair texture right off the bat to narrow things down (Oh! She's the light one with the good hair!) but I wonder if American black is one side of a spectrum with majority black countries with less American influence on the other side of Jamaica.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 19, 2012 5:58:02 pm PST #1522 of 30001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I would think that logically, when most people are black, white becomes a better descriptor, so there probably is that spectrum, I just don't know if we have people here to speak of it.

Of course, I am coming from the perspective of looking like everyone's Italian/Jewish/Greek cousin (seriously, when I was in retail I heard that, like once per day), and so I have a particular fascination for when those things became "white" rather than "other". Also, I swear I went to a college of the Aryan nation, because my 2 BFF's (one Italian American like me and one Italian/American/Jamaican) were like REALLY DARK com[pared to everyone. I mean the Black Student Union thing practically invited me along and it was the 1990's!