Congratulations, Nilly and family, on the new addition!

Okay, I successfully delaminated one of the two fretboards. The other one I have finished sanding down to correct its error. This one I am now just waiting on it to dry to see if we can't get a better shape.

It seems like that World Trade Center bombing has been largely forgotten after 9/11.

I remember that day. Stephen worked on Wall Street, and I was home with Jake, who was just two.

So it's been snowing like a mofo for the last 45 minutes here in Highland Park. What's it doing in Chicago? Still rain there?

Snow coming down hard now, but I don't know if it's sticking yet.

Yay for the NillyBaby! Such great news.

Be careful getting home, tommyrot.

Well, I had that chat with my boss. It was indeed about annual raises, so you were right, le nubian! I am not happy. I didn't expect a high raise; it's been years since they gave raises that made anyone particularly happy, but I was not expecting it to be this low. It feels insulting.

I know whereof Jessica speaks. I can fake it pretty well, but after about 1-2 hours, I am DONE. I fucking hate schmoozing. I have been lucky (and I mean that sincerely) in that my advisor is an awesome person and I have been good at doing service in national organizations. These two things have all lead to the jobs I had/have.

Social networking theory (which I know enough to be dangerous, but it is not my field) seems to indicate that it isn't your direct friends and family who can help you the most in terms of getting a job, but that it is their friends and associates (loose ties) who really help. Your own direct network is self-circulating, but the degree to which your network helps links you to others is what is effective.

So in this case, getting your name out there Consuela to your friends and close associates and having them contact their friends and close associates should get you a banging job.

My husband is a major connector. So there is one you know. The best thing about connectors is that they can talk to anyone. My suggestion - the next time you go to an event - just try and id the connectors. If you can talk to one - great. Because you don't have to say much to be remembered by them. If you can't - just try and remember them - the odds are you will see them again. and then you can say " oh yeah I saw you at x.

you don't need 10 conversations - just one.

A room full of stangers is no longer intimidating, but yes it still drains me.

Sadly, this is still probably the best job I could get, these days. I get a good salary, I can work on the couch in my pajamas, and the benefits are decent. Guess I have to look on the bright side.