Cacophony.  That's pretty.  What's it mean?

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Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - Nov 15, 2012 4:08:39 pm PST #1062 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

Being yelled at as a kid has not made me terribly conflict avoidant but, if someone yelled at me now, I'd walk away from them or, I hope, have the presence of mind to go very quiet and stern with them. Probably walk out of the room though.

After 5 days of no accidents, puppy has had two accidents today. In the same place and just pee but now I'm feeling a bit, like, "ack a puppy! I don't know how to raise one!" I'm used to accidents from senile incontinent dog who is not going to learn anyway so you just clean up after and move on. This baby can learn not to pee where she shouldn't. But we have to learn how to teach her.


Juliebird - Nov 15, 2012 4:09:28 pm PST #1063 of 30001
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

Being yelled at as a kid just made me pathologically conflict avoidant.

Well, I guess I don't have to resent my parents for being nice to me, then.


Tom Scola - Nov 15, 2012 4:10:41 pm PST #1064 of 30001
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

The couple sitting next to me at the bar just ordered two Manhattans—on the rocks. That’s just WRONG, isn’t it?


Kat - Nov 15, 2012 4:23:09 pm PST #1065 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

After 5 days of no accidents, puppy has had two accidents today. In the same place and just pee but now I'm feeling a bit, like, "ack a puppy! I don't know how to raise one!" I'm used to accidents from senile incontinent dog who is not going to learn anyway so you just clean up after and move on. This baby can learn not to pee where she shouldn't. But we have to learn how to teach her.

I feel this way about Noah.


msbelle - Nov 15, 2012 4:25:21 pm PST #1066 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

oh my dog y'all [link]


Jesse - Nov 15, 2012 4:32:21 pm PST #1067 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Heh, Kat.

msbelle, I was hoping that would be a picture of your dog.

YAY le nubian!!

Ugh, Juliebird. I have no answers, but looking for a new job is always a good call in my book. Maybe there's nothing right now, maybe you find your dream job.


Juliebird - Nov 15, 2012 4:44:47 pm PST #1068 of 30001
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

It's almost worse than having the ED of doom who would choose a new victim to kick from month to month, because then I was on my own and ordered my days as I saw fit and knew that the person who ocassionally kick me was a douche-nozzle with no logic.

I asked a coworker recently why there seemed to be tension in the ranks, and she replied that it was because there was no common enemy to unite us anymore. Which makes such total sense since we bonded so fiercely during the Snowpocalypse of 2011 with the storm cleanup, and gosh isn't our ED a fucktard?!

My biggest fear about changing jobs is that I've gotten so good at the nuances of this place that, while I may look competent, at a new place I'll be floundering like a new college graduate.


Kat - Nov 15, 2012 4:46:46 pm PST #1069 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

OMG indeed, msbelle.

I'm scared to see the new Judd Apatow movie because I feel like he stole some of it from my life.

Saw Skyfall today. What? Why? What? Huh? And that all is just the response to Javier Bardem's hair.


billytea - Nov 15, 2012 5:06:11 pm PST #1070 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

The couple sitting next to me at the bar just ordered two Manhattans—on the rocks. That’s just WRONG, isn’t it?

Well, yes. They forgot the control Manhattan.


Jesse - Nov 15, 2012 5:07:27 pm PST #1071 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

My biggest fear about changing jobs is that I've gotten so good at the nuances of this place that, while I may look competent, at a new place I'll be floundering like a new college graduate.

Only for a while, like anyone in a new job. I have a colleague who's been at our org for a million years, in his last position for 10, and just moved into a completely new department and position. He was saying he feels terrible for not knowing everything, but it's normal! And expected.