There's something about a food that moves all by itself that gives me the heebie-jeebies.

Joyce ,'Never Leave Me'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


§ ita § - Sep 23, 2012 9:08:59 pm PDT #23223 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

While most of the women we're going to see will be transgressing one or more (more!) of the rules Mayim Bialik follows, I'm sad it took her a few designers to get to what she wanted. I hope that was standard :"Sandy, you're just not feeling me here." thing she was experience, and it's something Christina Hendrix and Lucy Liu and Jennifer Garner (Emma Stone, anyone? Going once...going twice...going three times to the romantic with the nice smile in the corner! Enjoy, and be back before midnight, or you'll turn into a


Lee - Sep 23, 2012 9:22:10 pm PDT #23224 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Um, ita ! You lost me in that post.

I do agree it"s sad it took her a few tries, but after that part you lost me.


Strix - Sep 23, 2012 9:34:41 pm PDT #23225 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I am seriously wanting purple hair. Or at least a single-process deep-bright Bordeaux red with purple streaks. But the price! The upkeep! The damage!

But I WANT!


Nilly - Sep 23, 2012 10:12:40 pm PDT #23226 of 30001
Swouncing

So, again in a skipping-lots-ignoring-ongoing-conversations-and-poking-my-head-for-a-short-time manner, it's that time of year again, and, yeah, still in a risk of sounding a bit strange:

On Tuesday evening (as most of you clever people probably already know) starts the Jewish holiday of 'Yom Kippur', which means 'Day of Atonement'.

This is a day of soul searching, of trying to better define our faults to ourselves, and try to accept it upon ourselves to become, at least a little, better people. A day of repenting past wrongs we did, looking and finding it in our hearts to forgive wrongs done to us, and trying to remember to learn from this process in the rest of the days of the year. The holiest day of the year for practicing Jews.

On a rough division, there are two kinds of wrongs people can do: against G-d, and hurting their fellow human beings. In Jewish tradition, if the person committing a sin against G-d is truly sorry for what they did, repenting and taking it upon themselves to try and avoid repeating it, G-d forgives those sins.

The deeds which hurt other people, though, are not so 'easily' and personally forgiven. If somebody did anything to harm another person, they would not be able to cleanse themselves from that deed, no matter how much they'd pray and be sorry and repent and try to do good in the future, unless they make amends with the person who was hurt by that deed. As long as peace between people is not achieved, the 'sin', so to speak, is not 'erased from the books' above.

Regardless of the date in the year, I'd hate to think I'd offended somebody here (or everywhere else, for that matter). I don't think that the attempts of becoming a better person than one already is, is something that needs a date or a certain holiday for it, of course. It's just that, for me, having a certain day in the year to stop my daily runnings around, and think of nothing else but the really important things, is a good reminder of the order of priorities I'd like to have in my life.

So, since Wednesday will be, for me, this day of soul-searching, of trying to create a new start in my on-going effort of 'becoming a good human being, or at least a slightly better one', I would like to ask all of you here, if I offended anybody, or hurt any of you lovely people, to tell me about it, and give me the opportunity to apologize, fix it if possible, and also learn from my mistakes, and try to not repeat them (there are so many new ones to practice, why repeat old ones, you know?).

In case I offended anybody, and can't communicate directly with them about it (for whatever reason, especially with my lately irregular internet connection), I can already say that I'm truly sorry. I can honestly say that I didn't mean to - you're all so considerate and thoughtful and generally all-around lovely, that there's absolutely no room for such a thing here. However, I might have had a slip of a keyboard, or mistaken somebody's intentions, or many other possible so forths. Y'all are so understanding, you probably tried to find excuses for me and didn't take offense anyway, but I want to make sure, all the same.

Please don't get me wrong - I'm definitely not trying to go around in a 'holier-than-thou' show off, or force my personal beliefs on others, or make statements which may be understood as criticizing anybody else's beliefs (or lack thereof) and way of living. If anything, being around here, among such a rich versatile group of kind and clever people, has exposed me to a lot more ways of choosing to lead one's life than I've ever had a chance to see before, and has shown me much more of the beauty and richness that is the world we live in.

[Edit: this is especially true this year, with my oh-so-short computer time and internet access, which gave so way too many opportunities to unintentionally miss stuff or seem to ignore (undeliberately!) people or their posts or even the one thing I tried to maintain posting, their birthdays. While you guys are always so there-for-anybody-who-needs (including little me). So this is a chance to also post: Thank you.]


Strix - Sep 23, 2012 11:57:43 pm PDT #23227 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I love Nilly.

That is all.


askye - Sep 24, 2012 3:03:48 am PDT #23228 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

I liked Kelly Osbourne's dress and hair. And I thought the lipstick was fine but clashed with the dress.

I loved Tina Fey's dress. I also really liked Sofia Vergara's dress. I think it fits her personality.


Jessica - Sep 24, 2012 4:03:19 am PDT #23229 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I *love* Homeland and was happy to see it win all the Emmy's that Modern Family wasn't nominated for. (But poor Mad Men! Such a great season, but it's not the hot new thing anymore.)

I haz purple hair. My bathtub looks like I skinned a Muppet in there, but at least my hair will look good in the wedding photos!


billytea - Sep 24, 2012 4:14:00 am PDT #23230 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I *love* Homeland and was happy to see it win all the Emmy's that Modern Family wasn't nominated for. (But poor Mad Men! Such a great season, but it's not the hot new thing anymore.)

I was looking at the list of nominated dramas, and there is some superb television on the air these days. (Very happy about Homeland's win.)


§ ita § - Sep 24, 2012 4:49:10 am PDT #23231 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I got distracted from the post, as I do when I get past my bedtime, came back, thought I was finished...yeah.

I meant to say basically, in a typically late night long winded over conversational way, that I hope she was having the same issues meshing with a designer that Jennifer Garner or Emma Stone does, not that she was dealing with professionals who found her rules hard to work with. Because they're not all that restrictive.


§ ita § - Sep 24, 2012 5:00:35 am PDT #23232 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm looking at applications to help organise my life. When you look at something like file this or Manilla, why should I feel comfortable typing in my passwords? I did with mint.com, for reasons I can't actually articulate, but these apps will allow me to have downloaded digital copies of my bills (as opposed to emailed ones, or links I follow), and that fits with what I'm trying to accomplish right now. But I get to "enter your account info", have a mild panic attack, and back out of the app.