I know, world in peril and we have to work together. This is my last office romance, I'll tell you that.

Buffy ,'End of Days'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


§ ita § - Sep 24, 2012 4:49:10 am PDT #23231 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I got distracted from the post, as I do when I get past my bedtime, came back, thought I was finished...yeah.

I meant to say basically, in a typically late night long winded over conversational way, that I hope she was having the same issues meshing with a designer that Jennifer Garner or Emma Stone does, not that she was dealing with professionals who found her rules hard to work with. Because they're not all that restrictive.


§ ita § - Sep 24, 2012 5:00:35 am PDT #23232 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm looking at applications to help organise my life. When you look at something like file this or Manilla, why should I feel comfortable typing in my passwords? I did with mint.com, for reasons I can't actually articulate, but these apps will allow me to have downloaded digital copies of my bills (as opposed to emailed ones, or links I follow), and that fits with what I'm trying to accomplish right now. But I get to "enter your account info", have a mild panic attack, and back out of the app.


Lee - Sep 24, 2012 5:38:47 am PDT #23233 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I don't think getting to up and dressed and leaving the house is supposed to be this hard to get to, even on a Monday.


Burrell - Sep 24, 2012 6:07:12 am PDT #23234 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I hope she was having the same issues meshing with a designer that Jennifer Garner or Emma Stone does, not that she was dealing with professionals who found her rules hard to work with. Because they're not all that restrictive.

FWIW that's what I thought you meant.

I don't think getting to up and dressed and leaving the house is supposed to be this hard to get to, even on a Monday.

It's a sign. The gods want you back in bed.

Of course by the same token the gods must want me to head into work. Isaac got dressed and ready early today with no complaint so he could play briefly on the iPod before school. Whoa. That was unexpected.


Hil R. - Sep 24, 2012 6:23:51 am PDT #23235 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I hope she was having the same issues meshing with a designer that Jennifer Garner or Emma Stone does, not that she was dealing with professionals who found her rules hard to work with. Because they're not all that restrictive.

Here's the article: [link]

The Emmy gown was specifically, and painstakingly, selected to cover Ms. Bialik’s arms and much of her chest, conforming to the religious modesty guidelines she has embraced. Last year, she wrote in her blog about the arduous quest for a suitable dress, which she called “Operation Hot and Holy.”

It succeeded only after Ms. Bialik, frustrated with her stylist (“It was not a meeting of the minds,” she said), bought her own dress online. This year her new stylist, Alison M. Kahn, chose the gown, by the designer Pamella Roland. (“I don’t know who she is,” Ms. Bialik said in August, “but I don’t know who anyone is.”)

Even so, stylist and client had a back-and-forth about the contours of the neckline, with Ms. Bialik acknowledging that she “rather subjectively decided” that the original version was too “plungy.”

“It became about it being plunging, which to me is just one of those distinctions of modesty that I’ve decided to stay on the other side of,” she said. A compromise was reached.


§ ita § - Sep 24, 2012 6:25:59 am PDT #23236 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm back in life automation mode. I'm exploring the add-ons for Evernote, my most-used app on my Android devices. I found a templating tool. The graphics on the notes it spits out are way too cutesy for me--I need to work out how to strip those down, but I have altered one to my needs this morning: Dr's appointment. Hopefully this helps stuff. I was just keeping "remember for Dr. F" and "Dr. F said" notes, but this is better.

I've created a section for current medications, so I can fill out their form *properly* (I always forget something, a dosage or something stupid), and a Prep Notes section for stuff I know I want to mention (do I need a new methadone script? What did the pain doctor say? How's the ER been going?), a Discussed section, and a Takeaways/To Do section was well as standard timestamp and appointment identifiers.


Jessica - Sep 24, 2012 6:34:46 am PDT #23237 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I don't get what the special difficulty here is, except that Mayim Bialik loves to tell the press what a wonderful special snowflake she is, and so obviously HER quest for a long-sleeved gown is totally different from, say, Julianne Moore's or Julia Ormond or Lena Headly...


§ ita § - Sep 24, 2012 6:34:50 am PDT #23238 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I don't get why being modest for religious reasons should be significantly different from working with someone who says "Oh, not the boobs--I don't like my boobs, no cleavage on national TV. And have you seen my cankles??"

Please--don't take this as me equating religious modesty with either shame or vanity. What I'm trying to say is that designers get the same sort of restrictions as she will give for many other reasons all the time. They might want to be dressing Halle Berry all the time, but everyone's going to have preferences, and even if someone's definition of "too plunging" isn't backed up by internet authorities, it's just part of the job for designing clothes for someone not you.

My closest Orthodox friend in high school's biggest clothing issues were with her parents. For some reason her mother *really* wanted her in a sleeveless dress at her brother's bar mitzvah, and she refused point blank. That was a fun week or so.

They compromised with lace sleeves.


§ ita § - Sep 24, 2012 6:35:49 am PDT #23239 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Oh, hey--Jessica managed it in one sentence.


Jessica - Sep 24, 2012 6:37:35 am PDT #23240 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Mayim Bialik annoys me too much to waste a whole paragraph on her.