She won't change, she won't be asked to change. And possibly accepting that to some small degree, or appearing to, might change the way you react to her and how you are perceived.

Nope, you are right about that. I think I'm hung up on the fact that I'm in the right, damnit. I'm not the one causing delays and extra expense to the organization. I'm not the one lying about the work that's getting done, and going out of the way to undercut other staff. And I get a lot of self-worth out of being right (possibly more than is healthy). So it's difficult to get myself to let go of that.

But I do need to let go of it, at least with regards to the Nemesis: nothing I do has any effect on her behavior. If only her behavior didn't have such a direct impact on how my work gets done...

When is Onerous Task Day? Is it today? I have applied for two different jobs, gone through the hoops to defer/reschedule the jury summons sent to me, and planned the meals and grocery list for this week. I would like a sparkly gold star now.

(I would also like some sense that my resumes aren't just vanishing into HR black holes.)

Relevant to earlier discussion: according to Twitter, the OWS LIbrary (and other belongings) is in storage, not dumpsters. So that's something.

I discovered this because my town now has a food truck! So of course I had to follow it on twitter. The flow of information, it is peculiar.

And I get a lot of self-worth out of being right (possibly more than is healthy). So it's difficult to get myself to let go of that.

Can you keep the feeling but suppress the expression of it at work? Vent here. Feel morally superior. But just accept it as static at the office and something to be worked around?

It might be if things erode around her enough, she'll have to change. But it's slow and you need to find ways to deal with the situation now.

Yes, rock analogies. I couldn't make climbing analogies work, so I got as close as I could.

I would like a sparkly gold star now.

Gold fangs.

For Jilli - [link]

You know, the thing about the internet arguing is that I am at least writing, now.

Rage. It's what's for writer's block.

Hah, Allyson!

Also, Cass, more good advice! I shall try to follow it.

Dana and other Due South fans might enjoy this interview with David Marciano: [link]

Allyson, have you read Touched with Fire?

For two years!

Yup, that's how Mormon missions go, you are completely in another person's pocket for two years. Generally, though, you're not with the same person for the whole two years, because people get assigned to different locations and they go home at different times. They also want to have newbies paired up with older hands. So every few months you get to have a closer-than-married relationship with someone new that you don't choose.