I wanna hurt you, but I can't resist the sinister attraction of your cold and muscular body!

Buffybot ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Juliebird - Oct 06, 2011 4:01:12 pm PDT #664 of 30001
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

Okay, so I actually disappeared at work today. Stayed late, very tired, got caught up in a dizzying conversation with a wonderful colleague who is unable to reach a conclusion and talks in circles. I am notorious for having a short fuse with this wonderful woman. I like her tremendously, but she also has a tendency to get nervous. I have a tendency to get short-tempered with the symptoms of her nervousness, this makes her more nervous. I actually snapped a pencil in half, muttered "Jesus F***ing Christ" out loud, and then snuck away and went home before I made a public display of what bitch I am. I don't know how to handle this, beyond getting both of us some Prozac. I'm even afraid of having a calm, blunt conversation with her, for fear of agitating her, making her more uncomfortable, and causing even more of the behaviour that frustrates me (namely, talking in circles, inability to form a conclusion, and asking a question and unable to listen to the answer because she's still talking (in circles). She's a totally sweet, wonderful, unnefarious, goodhearted person. With quirks. And I just want to take her face in between my hands and say Shut. The. F***. Up. Maybe punch her for good measure. I was of a mind to smash my iced tea glass in the kitchen just for some relief (and that's my own anger management issue).


Steph L. - Oct 06, 2011 4:01:19 pm PDT #665 of 30001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Garter snakes are among the species where the males will at times engage in cross-dressing.

See, I know you don't mean a sequined dress and wild wig, and that just makes me sad.

My favourite example thereof is the giant cuttlefish

You've posted about the cuttlefish before, and I told Tim about it, and he was instantly ALL ABOUT Team Cuttlefish.


Consuela - Oct 06, 2011 4:10:30 pm PDT #666 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Who wants to fly to LA? I'll buy the bubble-wrap for ita.

I had my briefing with the Big Boss, and he thought my flowcharts & tables & maps were awesome. Yay! And after all the hassle, my Nemesis decided she couldn't be bothered to attend.

... and then she emailed someone again that she should have CC'd me on--in fact, she should have just passed the guy to me, it's not her issue. This time my boss caught it and replied (because she CC'd him) and cc'd me on the reply. I despair of her. He claims she's as blunt as I am, but she's sneaky as fuck, and absolutely refuses to change her ways. And she lies.

Anyway, the briefing went great, and now I have a four-day weekend, although the dog has an ear infection and is sitting next to me whining.


Jesse - Oct 06, 2011 4:15:26 pm PDT #667 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Good job, Consuela!

Ugh, Juliebird.

Jesus ita, more excitement you don't need.


Liese S. - Oct 06, 2011 4:16:12 pm PDT #668 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Good on you! Yay, four day weekend.


billytea - Oct 06, 2011 4:21:21 pm PDT #669 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

You've posted about the cuttlefish before, and I told Tim about it, and he was instantly ALL ABOUT Team Cuttlefish.

Who wouldn't be?!

See, I know you don't mean a sequined dress and wild wig, and that just makes me sad.

Alas, no. Just pheromones. Given the lack of compelling visual cues, it proves sufficient.


P.M. Marc - Oct 06, 2011 4:28:51 pm PDT #670 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

ita !,

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meara - Oct 06, 2011 4:36:21 pm PDT #671 of 30001

I, too, was picturing snakes in wigs and dresses. Maybe lipsynching to "I Will Survive"

Julie, I used to have a friend like that, and had to just know what i was getting into and focus on the good parts. But in a coworker it makes me batty (my boss on a previous project talked and talked around stuff until she confused herself...). Good luck.


Sue - Oct 06, 2011 4:37:27 pm PDT #672 of 30001
hip deep in pie

Consuela, glad your boss was so receptive.

This is for everyone, but I was thinking it may cheer ita....Naked Athletes. (NSFW. Video automatically starts playing on page (a big pet peeve of mine.))

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Sue - Oct 06, 2011 4:44:25 pm PDT #673 of 30001
hip deep in pie

This is also good. Pictures of people getting scared in a Haunted House. [link]

Some look put on, some of those expressions can't be faked.