You were very nearly devoured by a giant demon snake. The words 'let that be a lesson' are a tad redundant at this juncture.

Giles ,'Selfless'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


§ ita § - Mar 22, 2012 8:46:18 am PDT #27681 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

it seems to frame feminism in a bad light

I don't understand how. Can you explain?

Is this definition of feminism as simple as "woman who believes in equal rights for women"?

Because, honestly? I don't want to be a part of "feminism" if it doesn't include men. So I would therefore believe in equal rights for women, but not identify myself as a feminist under that definition. Bad light, enh. It's the light the definers want.


Jesse - Mar 22, 2012 8:52:52 am PDT #27682 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Usually people who proclaim that they are not feminists are doing it because they want to distance themselves from connotations with the movement.


§ ita § - Mar 22, 2012 9:03:36 am PDT #27683 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Usually people who proclaim that they are not feminists are doing it because they want to distance themselves from connotations with the movement.

Yes, but if you restrictively define feminism, it becomes a perfectly valid statement, which is my point. There then becomes a connotation worth distancing yourself from.


Jesse - Mar 22, 2012 9:09:28 am PDT #27684 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Sure, but that's an uncommon definition, and not what most people would understand you to be saying.


Kate P. - Mar 22, 2012 9:14:25 am PDT #27685 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I feel pretty strongly that men can definitely be feminists. I know there are some who would disagree, but I've never felt that mine is a minority view.


§ ita § - Mar 22, 2012 9:27:05 am PDT #27686 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

but that's an uncommon definition, and not what most people would understand you to be saying

But it's specifically what I'm talking about right now--I asked about the intersection of the people who place such restrictions on the definition and the people who deride that statement. I didn't pull it out with no context.


§ ita § - Mar 22, 2012 9:30:50 am PDT #27687 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Luther to be made a movie? [link]


Jesse - Mar 22, 2012 9:52:20 am PDT #27688 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

But it's specifically what I'm talking about right now--I asked about the intersection of the people who place such restrictions on the definition and the people who deride that statement. I didn't pull it out with no context.

I read meara's "it seems to frame feminism in a bad light" as based on common understanding of the term and common use of the phrase. That's what I was responding to.


meara - Mar 22, 2012 9:54:34 am PDT #27689 of 30001

I asked about the intersection of the people who place such restrictions on the definition and the people who deride that statement

Right. And in that case, if you say "Men cannot be feminists because they are not women", the appropriate thing to do/say as a (helpful/ally/supportive) man would be "I am not a woman, but I support feminism" (or vice versa, "I support feminism even though I'm a man" or whatever), NOT "I'm not a feminist"--is that because you don't like feminism or because you don't feel you're allowed to call yourself one?


Strix - Mar 22, 2012 9:59:32 am PDT #27690 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

FWIW, I think the "men can't be feminists" POV is eyerolly BS.

Feminism is the belief that women are equal to men and should have equal rights. Being a feminist doesn't require any particular body part other than a brain.