I'm really glad I had that experience my junior year of high school, because it was really a shock, and a good lesson. Also, he graded on the curve, so I still got good grades, even after not getting everything.
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Natter 69: Practically names itself.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Kristin, thanks for sharing that article! Totally fascinating, and makes a lot of sense.
Allyson, holy shit, that's a lot to deal with all at once.
Allyson, I'm sorry, I didn't see that I'd crossposted until I got home. Good heavens, that's a lot of upsetting in one go! ~ma to everyone who needs it!
My mom used to call me "Miss Scarlett" when I got like that, JZ. And I wouldn't get anything if I asked liked that.(She didn't want me playing the, you know, SPED card. Because my asthmatic dad was such the Special Snowflake that he still doesn't play with others.
Oh Christ, Allyson. I'm so sorry.
Much ~ma to your entire family.
I bookmarked Kristin's article, because it's too late for me to read anything requiring too much thinking right now. I know for sure that I would do worse today than I did at 10 or 11 on and IQ test my mother's colleague did on me for practice. If I recall, a lot of it had to do with memory and visualization, and both of those things are deteriorating in my, sad, formerly brilliant but eternally lazy, little brain. I do look forward to the article.
Accomplished a couple of onerous tasks today. Yay.
That's a lot of crap right there, Allyson. Directing some coping and dealing thoughts towards Boston.
I was going to "Yay!" something, but I've forgotten. See first paragraph re: deteriorating memory.
Oh, wait, now I remember.
Happy Birthday Calli and Burrell!
I only read the one about praising (or not) intelligence over effort, but I want to go back and read the others. IQ has always fascinated me.
Allyson, are your parents okay with having them there for a while?
I can say without reading it that I was too often praised for something pretty much out of my control - intelligence - and not for effort, because I was lazy as shit, but no one really noticed, I guess. God, how I wish I had noticed! Before, like, thirty-five. Effort and self-discipline, my holy grails. (You can have two, right? Oh, hell, I've got several more!)
Lots of ~ma, Allyson.
Happiest of birthdays to Calli and Burrell!!
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