Anything that will get your blood sugar and fluids up could help, Hil.
Everything looks good from here... Yes. Yes, this is a fertile land, and we will thrive. We will rule over all this land, and we will call it... 'This Land.' I think we should call it 'your grave!' Ah, curse your sudden but inevitable betrayal! Ha ha HA! Mine is an evil laugh! Now die! Oh, no, God! Oh, dear God in heaven!
Wash ,'Serenity'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Ginger - Mar 12, 2012 5:40:59 pm PDT #9582 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Liese S. - Mar 12, 2012 5:46:23 pm PDT #9583 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
I want to become a finisher. I'm a good starter, but I lose momentum and get bored and distracted. I want to strengthen my finishing muscles. Dammit.
You and me both, baby.
He is going to be pretty angry about the journal. I'm just warning you.
Yup. He is. And that's okay. He has the right to how he feels, and they are his kids, too, so he rightfully feels like he's fighting for something important to him too. That's good. It could be a situation where he was uninvolved or uninterested in the kids' lives.
You, however, also have the right to feel hurt by his actions, and you had the right to keep track of what happened. Divorce is never going to be fun or easy or uncomplicated, and you are doing the best you can, making the best decisions you know how to at the time. Some of them are going to suck, and there's no getting around it. There just isn't.
Hil R. - Mar 12, 2012 5:48:18 pm PDT #9584 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I'm drinking some water. Also watching the extras on the Mamma Mia DVD. I want to go to Greece.
SailAweigh - Mar 12, 2012 5:51:24 pm PDT #9585 of 30001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
Maria, that is most excellent news!
Stephanie, you did the best you could and that is all anyone can do. Maybe this will be a wake-up call for him, when it's laid out in black and white. If anything, maybe he will start to think about how his behavior affects the kids.
Stephanie - Mar 12, 2012 5:58:55 pm PDT #9586 of 30001
Trust my rage
Thanks, everyone. You are wise.
I'm praying we settle before I have to testify.
Typo Boy - Mar 12, 2012 6:00:33 pm PDT #9587 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Hil could make yourself tea with sugar or honey or other caloric sweetener?
Ginger - Mar 12, 2012 6:01:42 pm PDT #9588 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Yay for nothing, Maria!
Hil R. - Mar 12, 2012 6:20:15 pm PDT #9589 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I think I don't really like tea. Or, at least not the kind I have. I liked tea in Ireland.
Now I'm watching Mamma Mia again. It's got Stellan Skarrrsgarrrd. That's fun to say.
OK. Getting silly. That's a side effect of Vicodin that I'm more used to.
Skarrsgarrrrd.
smonster - Mar 12, 2012 6:31:55 pm PDT #9590 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I am awake. Bu yao.
There is a cat in heat outside, and I keep thinking it's one of my cats (both spayed, thanks), and I think ear plugs are called for.
erin_obscure - Mar 12, 2012 6:35:13 pm PDT #9591 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
Earplugs, or a water gun.